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The Day I Made a Friend of Grief

“Grief is just love with no place to go.” ~Jamie Anderson

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I am not one to fall in and out of love easily, but the times I’ve fallen, I’ve given my love totally — and been devastated just as completely. Every break is harder than the one that came before, and yet I keep expecting it to get easier. As if loving and losing could ever be a simple thing.




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Crystal Jackson

Crystal Jackson

Former therapist. Author, Heart of Madison series. Poet.

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