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Why Meetup Groups are a Better Alternative than Online Dating Sites

Built-in activities, common interests, and safety in numbers

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When I rejoined the dating world at fifty-four, I was encouraged to meet someone the way everyone seemed to be meeting someone — on Later, I experimented with Plenty of Fish, Our Time, E-Harmony, and other online dating sites. Out of these…




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