You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem and smarter than you think

Helen Grace
Daily Lifestyle Blog
5 min readOct 7, 2021

Types of Motivation

1. Positive Motivation

2. Negative Motivation

Positive Motivation

Positive Motivation give a feeling of pleasure and satisfaction. For eg; salary increment, promotion, Buying car, home, receiving awards.

Negative Motivation

Negative Motivation give a feeling of pain, displeasure and dissatisfaction. For eg; Failure, no job, fine, punishment.

Ways To Motivate Yourself

Succeeding in business is no easy feat. It’s too easy to let business knock you down. Instead of throwing in the towel when there is a business problem, pick yourself back up, buckle down, and get to work. These motivational stories prove that with a little hard work, any amount of business success is possible.

Motivational Story Business and Work

Once, there was an older man, who was broke, living in a tiny house and owned a beat up car. He was living off of $99 social security checks. At 65 years of age, he decide things had to change.

So he thought about what he had to offer. His friends raved about his chicken recipe. He decided that this was his best shot at making a change.

He left Kentucky and travelled to different states to try to sell his recipe. He told restaurant owners that he had a mouthwatering chicken recipe. He offered the recipe to them for free, just asking for a small percentage on the items sold.

Ways To Motivate Yourself

Sounds like a good deal, right? Unfortunately, not to most of the restaurants. He heard NO over 1000 times. Even after all of those rejections, he didn’t give up. He believed his chicken recipe was something special. He got rejected 1009 times before he heard his first yes.

With that one success Colonel Hartland Sanders changed the way Americans eat chicken. Kentucky Fried Chicken, popularly known as KFC, was born.

Remember, never give up and always believe in yourself in spite of rejection.

Self Motivation

Self-motivation is easy to understand when you consider some examples that contrast it with other kinds of motivation:

A man who goes to work every only as a means to pay the bills, keep his family off his back, and please his boss is not self-motivated, while a man who needs no external forces to make the trek into work every day and finds fulfilment in what he does is self-motivated.

The student who only completes her homework because her parents remind her or nag her, or because they ground her when she fails to complete it is not self-motivated, but the student who completes her homework with no prodding because she wants to learn and succeed in school is self-motivated.

The woman who only goes to the gym when her friends drag her there or because her doctor is adamant that she needs to exercise to get healthy is not self-motivated, but the woman who likes the way exercise makes her feel and schedules time at the gym whether or not anyone encourages her is self-motivated.

As you can see, self-motivation is all about where your drive comes from; if your motivation comes from within and pushes you to achieve for your own personal reasons, it can be considered self-motivation. If you are only motivated to achieve standards set by someone else and not for your own internal satisfaction, you are probably not self-motivated.

It’s possible to be self-motivated in some areas and not in others. For example, if the man from the first example is not internally motivated to go to work but is sure to make time for his marathon training, he is not self-motivated when it comes to work but might be self-motivated to run.

Self Motivation Story

There were two brothers in a village. One was 13 years old and the other was 8 years old. They both were playing near a well and suddenly the elder one fell down in the well !

He was screaming and the younger One was frightened by this, he wanted to save his brother but there was no one around who can help them.

Ways To Motivate Yourself

Younger one tried to get help but he couldn’t then he himself found a way, he told his brother to hold the string tightly which was tied up with a bucket and started pulling it up. Though it was difficult initially but soon he saved his brother!

Can you believe it ? A 8 years old saved a 13 years old. Seems impossible right ? But he could do this. Do you know why ? After reading it you will understand 75 % of what I want to convey.

Why do I have no Motivation?

Here are some common reasons for a lack of motivation: Avoidance of discomfort. Whether you don’t want to feel bored when doing a mundane task, or you are trying to avoid feelings of frustration by doing a tough challenge, sometimes a lack of motivation stems from a desire to avoid uncomfortable feelings. Self-doubt.

Ways to Stay Motivated

1. Get out of bed and Go for a walk

2. Don’t over schedule

3. Avoid negativity

4. Get enough sleep

5. Giving Yourself a Quick Boost

6. Turn on an energetic song to help you feel more upbeat

7. Do light stretches or yoga for a low-energy option

Find your passion and develop a positive mantra so when the next time negativity hits you again, you know how to stay positive and motivated! Believe in yourself! Have faith in your abilities! Without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers you cannot be successful or happy.

“You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem and smarter than you think”

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Helen Grace
Daily Lifestyle Blog

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