What I’m up to and who I am, updated February 3, 2021

Biography

My name is Demeter DeLune and I’ve been writing stories my entire life. Welcome to my page. I hope you find at least one story you can connect with. About a year ago, I began this journey on Medium, sharing my deepest, darkest secrets in story form and sexual education pieces.

In this life, I’ve been a Professional Dominatrix, a phone sex operator, an insurance agent, a chemist, and a counselor.

Now, I’m a freelance writer, editor, and sex educator.

Writing under a pseudonym has its advantages. This is a place I can express myself, tell stories, share erotica, or…


Review of the Hismith Tip Activated Sex Machine

The idea of a sex machine has been intriguing to me since the first time I saw one at a swinger’s club.

So much so, I convinced my second husband to build one for me.

Although it was rudimentary, it got the job done for a fraction of the cost of a branded machine, which were upwards of $1000 back then. Being the tech savvy person he was, he even tried to integrate the machine with computer controls, which didn’t exactly work as he planned.

Overall, it was a neat experience, but left me wanting something a bit less DIY.


Users have identified April 24th as National Rape Day and we need to be prepared.

Every 73 seconds, an American is sexually assaulted. By the time you finish reading this article, depending on how quickly you read, two-four people will be sexually assaulted. On average, there are 433,648 victims (aged 12 or older) of rape and sexual assault each year in the United States. (stats from RAINN)

As if those numbers aren’t dire enough, now, someone on the internet has designated April 24, 2021 as National Rape Day.

Yes, you read that correctly.

There’s a video going around TikTok stating men will be raping women and children on that day. TikTok has removed the video…


Your choice in career doesn’t mean you lose agency over your own body.

Consent is a hot topic these days, but sadly, I’m still seeing evidence people don’t feel sex workers have the same rights to consent as everyone else. There seems to be a mistaken impression that simply because you’re a sex worker, and being paid for your services, this means you have to deal with whatever comes your way. Sadly, this is likely the case for those being trafficked, since they didn’t necessarily agree to sex work in the first place. …


I made the choice to be unfaithful, so it’s up to me to put in the work toward healing.

Hi, I’m Damian, and I cheated on my wife, more than once. Don’t worry, my wife already knows. It’s been years since I made what could have been a relationship killing mistake, but that doesn’t mean I don’t still deal with the fallout.

I was always the type of person who felt like I should be able to have my cake and eat it too. A misogynistic asshole who didn’t consider how my actions affected others until confronted with them. And even then, I usually walked away and didn’t look back, never learning the lesson I should have.

When I…


Let me be an example to you all of what not to do.

When I first met the woman who would become my wife, I wooed her, intensely. I don’t mean I spent a lot of money (though I probably would have, had I been able), more that I endeavored to make the time I had with her worthwhile and significant. I left her little love notes on her night table, in marker on the mirror of the bathroom, and picked wild roses to give her whenever I saw them.

Does this sound familiar to you? It might, as I feel a lot of men go to these levels of showing their partner…


My experience with the Lovense Lush 2 has been eye opening.

Since the advent of the human being, sex has been about touch. Whether foreplay or just going straight to the point, to have sex, you had to be in contact with one another. Thanks to technologies like the internet, Wi-Fi, and Bluetooth connectivity, the 21st century has blessed us with sex toys that are changing the way we view and perform sex. Our tech devices can talk to each other from across the globe, so naturally, our sex toys are trying to keep pace.

Among the most high tech sex toys out there, perhaps none of them has been as…


My review of the Best Vibe Rhino Horn dildo.

If you’ve been following me for a bit, you’ve likely seen me talk about how much I want a fantasy dildo. I’m obsessed with companies like Bad Dragon, Wandering Bard, KuduVoodoo, Geeky Sex Toys, and the like. They create some of the most beautiful fantasy toys I’ve seen, and I really want one (or 10).

However, it’s not been in the cards yet, which makes me a little sad. I’ve reached out to a few of the companies to see if they’re willing to provide one of their models in exchange for an honest review, but no such luck. …


This is dating advice for men, tip #4903.

You have to keep believing if you want true love, just like me, and you’re going to find it goddamn it — but you may have to adjust your strategy or compromise on some things.

Today is Monday, January 18th, 2021 and these are my top 10 dating advice tips for men:

  1. Dress nice, but don’t overdo it.
  2. Go to places that aren’t cliche. Don’t buy dinner unless you really want to.
  3. Open doors and pull out chairs.
  4. Look them in their eyes while you talk, and like actually f*cking listen.
  5. Be confident, have fun, be transparent about your flaws and your strengths.
  6. Don’t get drunk (I like a good buzz) and let them talk more than…


Or Science?

John Gottman’s books have enlightened me on the science and art of how to create thriving monogamy (or serial monogamy, polyamory, or hell, polygamy maybe) in relationships.

Compatibility, teamwork, vulnerability, participation, communication, trust, and our self-awareness correlates to the book The Five Love Languages, which is really just a book written about why (in my opinion) the data from Gottman’s research makes sense.

Do Gottman’s research and tools work in real-time?

Because thriving in relationships takes more than speaking your partner’s love language — it’s recognizing why, how, when, what, and where — compatibility with a partner in both natural and unnatural ways matters more than the “feeling”…

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