A Practical Manual

Meditation

A healthy mind makes a healthy life

Cypriano Onyeka Mokobia
Dancing Elephants Press

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We infuse far-reaching and long-lasting benefits into our lives when we meditate: we’re less stressed, we’re more connected, I mean body and mind, we’re more focused, and we’re kinder to ourselves in addition to curtailing the ‘chatter of our minds.’

A brief explanation of the practice

According to verywellmind, meditation can be defined as a set of techniques that are intended to encourage a heightened state of awareness and focused attention.

How Do You Meditate?

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Everyone can meditate; here’s how.

1) Grab a seat. Find a relaxing and quiet spot to sit.

2) Establish a time limit If you’re just starting out, setting aside a modest amount of time, such as five or ten minutes, can be beneficial.

3) Pay attention to your body You can either sit cross-legged or kneel in a chair with your feet on the floor. Just make sure you’re solid and in a position where you’ll be able to stay for a long time.

4) Be aware of your breathing.
Follow the sensations of your breath as it enters and leaves your body.

5) Recognize when your thoughts have strayed.

Your focus will inevitably move away from the breath and to other things. Simply return your focus to the breath when you notice your mind has wandered — in a few seconds, a minute, five minutes.

6) Be patient with your wandering thoughts.

Don’t pass judgment on yourself or obsess about the content of your wandering thoughts. Just return.

7) End on a happy note. Gently elevate your gaze when you’re ready (if your eyes are closed, open them). Take some time to listen to the sounds around you. Pay attention to how your body is now feeling. Keep an eye on your feelings and thoughts.

That concludes the procedure. This is how it works. You concentrate your concentration, your mind wanders, you bring it back, and you do so as gently as possible (as many times as you need to).

How much time should I spend meditating?

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According to recent research by neuroscientist Amishi Jha, 12 minutes of meditation five times a week can safeguard and increase your capacity to pay attention.

Frequently Asked Questions about Mindfulness Meditation

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It’s natural for questions to arise when you’re new to meditation. These responses might help you relax.

1) Can I scratch an itch?

Yes, but before scratching it with your fingers, try scratching it with your mind first.

2) Should I breathe quickly or slowly, or somewhere in between?

You should only be concerned if you’ve stopped breathing. Otherwise, you’re in good shape. Breathe in whatever way that feels good to you.

3) Should I keep my eyes open or close?

There aren’t any hard and fast regulations. Both should be tried. If the eyes are open but not too wide, and the look is soft and slightly downward, not focusing on anything in particular. If your eyes are closed, but not too tightly, and you are not imagining anything in particular in your mind’s eye.

4) Is it possible that I am unable to meditate?

When you ask yourself that question, you’ve officially started your meditation. That is something that everyone wonders about. Take note of it, return your concentration to the object of your attention (the breath). Come back to the breath when you’re lost and doubting again. That is standard procedure. There’s no limit to how many times you can get sidetracked before returning to your breath. Meditating isn’t about striving for perfection; it’s about returning to the breath over and over.

5) Should I practice in a group or on my own?

Both are fantastic! Meditation with others is quite beneficial. Furthermore, practicing on your own develops discipline.

6) What is the best time to meditate during the day?

Whatever is most convenient for you. Consider your particular circumstances, such as children, pets, and work. Experiment, but do so with caution. If you always pick the most convenient time, it will nearly always be tomorrow.

7) Do you have any suggestions for including pets into meditation?

While meditating, we don’t have to fight distractions like a warrior fighting dragons. If your dog or cat enters the room, barks and meows, and brushes up against you or settles down on a piece of your cushion, it’s not a big deal. Allow it to happen naturally. Interrupting your session in order to relate to them is less effective. If this is the case, devise a plan to prevent them from interfering with your practice.

Related article by Carmellita on the sweetness of life.

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