Kindness


I survived an abusive childhood filled with fear. In one particular instance, I was so scared, that I thought the only option I had, was to run away. I was 16.

So I did, not knowing where to go, I walked into the Mission at our train station, a refuge for those homeless and stranded. If they had space, they allowed you to stay, for a night. There were no beds, just blankets and sleeping bags, a cup of hot tea and a slice of bread with jam, but for me it was enough, a safe place.

An older, homeless man, dirty from living on the street, with un-kept hair, and a rucksack that held everything he owned,showed me warm smile, and gifted me his attention and patience. He made sure I was safe, and allowed me to cry, why he sat there, keeping me company.

To this day — I am 42 now — I will never forget the sweet kindness this man showed me. He gave me what he had, which was empathy, something I did not know from my home. A bigger present than anything I ever received before.

I have no idea what happened to him. After that day, I never saw him again, but I am grateful for his presence, however fleeting, and always will be.

May you all find someone to share your space, when you are in need.




Originally published at shrineofhecate.wordpress.com on January 7, 2015.