Space to Connect — the Secret of Winning on First Dates

Joe Oppenheimer
Dating For Love
Published in
2 min readJan 8, 2023

Are you tired of going on first dates that just seem to fizzle out? Do you find it difficult to connect with your potential partners and build a meaningful relationship?

Well, we have a secret for you — the key to winning on first dates is all about finding the right space to connect.

We all know that first impressions are important, but what really matters is the connection you build with your date. And the best way to do that is to find a space where you can have a decent conversation and be physically close to one another.

This could be something as simple as taking a walk in a safe park, or as unique as playing music or going to an archery range together.

One thing to consider is finding a location that is visually pleasing and adds to the overall atmosphere of the date.

This could be a beautiful rooftop bar, a scenic picnic spot, or even a wine bar with a cozy atmosphere. The goal is to create a comfortable and enjoyable setting for the both of you to relax and get to know each other.

Another great option is to try a unique activity together, such as playing pool or taking a cooking class. Not only will this give you something to focus on and bond over, but it also adds a touch of novelty and excitement to the date.

Of course, it’s important to make sure the activity is something both of you are interested in and feel comfortable with. The last thing you want is to be stuck doing something that either of you finds tedious or intimidating.

So the next time you’re planning a first date, don’t just settle for the usual dinner and a movie. Take the time to find a space that allows you to connect and really get to know each other.

You’ll be surprised at how much more enjoyable and successful your dates can be when you find the right space to connect.

Can’t get a first date? Read our guide for how to get off the apps and out to a date on our website: https://datingforlove.com/2022/12/08/how-to-get-off-the-apps/

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Joe Oppenheimer
Dating For Love

💥 Musician and Men's dating coach @dating.for.love & creator of the Winning Hand course for men ♠️ ❤️ Husband to @jivenyblairwest