3 Ways to Get a Girl That’s HOTTER Than You (if You’re UGLY!) | Get Girls Out of Your League
how to get a girl who is hotter than you.
You’re an average guy or maybe even kinda ugly but you don’t wanna let that stop you.
You still wanna date hot babes, those sexy girls.
I mean: Why should you let your looks stop you ?
If you wanna go after those babes you gotta pay attention bro.
Because you and the rest of the guys in the world are here on Medium reading my posts trying to learn how you can do it too.
Well lucky for you!
I’m here to guide you and I’m gonna show you exactly how to do it.
You know, an average guy like you can date hot girls.
By the end, you’re gonna be your own secret weapon, it’s gonna be like reigning cats if you know what I mean.
So, let’s strap in Bro and get ready for the ride.
Rule number one:
1. Don’t treat them like they’re better than you
The fact that someone is attractive doesn’t tell you everything about them.
Now, this isn’t the caveman days anymore.
The sole purpose of life is not to find the most attractive person and put a baby in them.
Looks don’t determine whether or not she’s the right fit for you as a romantic partner. Looks are important in the girls you date but not everything.
Don’t be so willing to throw your standards out the window just because a girl is hot. Being more attractive doesn’t make them better than you.
Start by thinking with the head on your shoulders and not the one swinging between your legs.
In fact, because she’s smoking hot means it’s probably even more likely that her personality is worse, since attractive people are treated better on average, since normal people are consistently hitting on them, it can easily create a sense of entitlement and an air of “ I’m better than you”.
That gets really old really fast.
I don’t care how hot you are, I have dated more chicks than you can count but I stays far away from the ones with shitty personalities.
Now if you suck, you suck. No matter how hot you are.
Bonus tip:
Don’t focus the interaction on your thoughts, on how hot she is.
Focus it on who she is, and judge her based on her character.
You’ll immediately separate yourself from the army of simps drooling over her and trying to smell her farts.
Rule number two:
2. Understand what it means to be high status
A 10 out of 10 girl who looks like a model is going to be high status just by her looks alone.
Now, this means she’s going to be looking for guys who are at least the same status level as her or even higher AKA: you need to be high status to get the girl.
But most guys get the phrase “high status” totally wrong.
Status isn’t completely determined by looks money or fame. Your actions determine your status and how you’re perceived. The actions you take with the women in your life will determine your status.
Luckily, you have total control over your actions.
For example, before I became successful, girls liked me because they knew i’d be successful to them.
I was like Amazon in 1999, my value was only going to explode in the future.
I was taking all the right actions to be successful, it was just a matter of time and the girls knew it.
I was working hard starting businesses, taking care of myself, prioritizing my time seriously and I had tons of ambition.
To them, I was high status because they knew in the future I’d be high status.
Make sense?
Sure, this gives you the same status as a rich famous guy without having to be rich or famous.
Rule number three:
3. A girl that is insanely attractive will have tons of options
Understand that a true girl that is insanely attractive with a high quality personality will have tons of options more options than you can fathom.
Now, even if you do everything right, sometimes it just won’t work but don’t let that discourage you, chances are if you do everything right you’ll win more often than not and the times you don’t will probably be because of her and not because of something you did.
For example, you might approach or slide into a DM or do everything 100% perfectly but she’s interested in investing in someone else, just got out of a relationship or decided that she just doesn’t like you.
I’ve gone out hundreds of times and approached thousands of women.
You’d be surprised how regularly things don’t go your way through no fault of your own.
Because: Nobody knows!
Maybe she has to take care of a drunk friend, she’s in a bad mood or she’s got something going on in her personal life.
That makes her unreceptive.
Maybe her dog just died. You never know.
But what you absolutely can’t do is give up or throw in the towel.
A lot of guys use rejection as an excuse to keep rejecting themselves from opportunities.
You can’t believe that dating is rigged against you or you have no chance of succeeding because when you do, it’s the same as quitting game is.
Like poker you get delta hand and you either play it or you fold early and play another hand.
Nobody, no matter how good you are, you cannot get any girl at any time.
Women are an enigma.
Sometimes you can do things to make the odds favor you heavily with any girl at any time, but it’s no guarantee.
At the end of the day you’re dealing with another person who has to agree to move the relationship forward with you.
The purpose of this article is to work on improving yourself.
Because when you improve yourself, you also improve your dating prospects and the quality of women who will be interested in you.
But it doesn’t end there.
You can’t just improve yourself. You also have to go out and learn how to communicate your new and improved bad self to women and the best way I know how to do this is by using Instagram.
Like it or not Instagram is the modern day marketplace for status and we can use this to our advantage to connect with gorgeous women, and let me tell you: Bro, those nines and tens you’re after they’re not on Tinder but they’re all on Instagram.
Learning how to attract girls over text on Instagram is more important than ever.
So, That’s it.
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