Social Media Bullying — On LinkedIn?

Mandi Bishop
Jun 28, 2016 · 3 min read

This is a story best told through pictures, captured exactly as it unfolded, without any edits or exclusions. LinkedIn is a public social network; anyone can view the posts that are submitted here, unless they occur in a private group or message. I’ve never met many of my followers or connections, and that’s OK; I appreciate connection and engaging discussions.

This entire exchange occurred out in the open, not in a group or message.

This is what it is to be a woman expressing an opinion online that strikes a nerve.

Or, in this case, sharing an opinion someone else expressed — via Dilbert.

*Edit 6/28: link to the original LinkedIn thread, where raving continues and new bullies (some more subtle than others) emerge as others blocked.*

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It started with me sharing a Dilbert cartoon that resonated with me. I remember my 1600 baud modem. Suddenly, I became a “misogynistic hater”. Did I miss something: was there a woman in the cartoon?
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Dilbert’s digital natives vs. paper generation, to me, allegory for rapid change affecting law, process, education.
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Worthy of firing. And I’m offended by sexist views, but have been called a “misogynistic hater”.
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Not everyone agrees with the cartoon, but logical discourse ensues.
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Shallow is as shallow does.
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Multiple people offended. However, most continue civil conversation.
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A pox on you, offensive idiot who is somehow both a feminist and a “misogynistic idiot” simultaneously.
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Youth is wasted on the young. And talking to my legal department sounds like an excellent idea.
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“My cartoon” is syndicated in every major newspaper and online repository, in multiple languages.
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Intent doesn’t matter. Results do. And I’m sad about that.
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It’s becoming clear to me there’s a misconception that I’m a) young, b) technical.
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Bless those who stand up to bullies, in schoolyards and on social media.
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Indeed, I’ve been duly called out for promoting groups to which I belong.
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Again, bless those who stand up to bullies. You are the true masters of the universe.
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Couldn’t have ended it better if I’d planned it.

This is bullying. This happened to me. This happened today. Astonishingly, this happened on a professional social media networking site “in front of” literally thousands of people. And the bully honestly believes I should cower.

By the way, the original poster of the Dilbert cartoon appeared to be a young man who would be representative of the “youth culture” referenced in it. He received more than 5 pages of responses. Those pages consisted of replies like these shown below, in stark contrast to the hours-long personal and professional attack I received:

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See any poxes cursed here?
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Hmm, maybe a pox is cursed HERE?
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Still no poxes. I’m taking my pox and going home.

Thank you for the 200 new followers I picked up on LinkedIn today, bully. I’ll make sure I send an update to my network with this post when it goes live.

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Thank you!

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Healthcare industry analyst. Speaker. Author. Army Wife. Mom. Conflicted Paleo fan and chocaholic.

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