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Flavorless Grace: When Saying Grace Becomes Habit, Not Gratitude

Desert Queen KG
Desert Dialogue
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1 min readFeb 2, 2025

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A Poetic Reflection on Faith, Tradition, and the Meaning Behind Our Words

We are taught to give thanks before we receive—to bow our heads, to speak words of gratitude, to make a ritual of appreciation. But what happens when those words lose their weight, when they become mere muscle memory, recited out of habit rather than meaning? Flavorless Grace explores this tension, using the metaphor of an unremarkable meal to critique the ways tradition can strip itself of sincerity.

Flavorless Grace

You need me to be gracious

Well… I don’t see the point.

I said my grace plenty of times and learned that the only return is to the porcelain throne.

Thirty seconds of tongue tickling muscle memory dribbles out of my mouth and onto my plate.

Not unsimilar from a side of gravy with no black pepper.

Thick.

Offcolor.

Unremarkable.

Indoctrination, doused in rhyme and efficiency.

The quicker the grace,

the closer to dinner.

Remember, Mabel, keep your elbows off the table.

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Desert Dialogue
Desert Dialogue

Published in Desert Dialogue

Desert Dialogue: A celebration of inclusivity, culture, life, and love through the hyper local lens of the Desert Southwest. Our goal is to strengthen and amplify community connection across Arizona, Texas, Colorado, Southern California, New Mexico, and Utah. All are welcome!

Desert Queen KG
Desert Queen KG

Written by Desert Queen KG

Phoenix-based, queer, Black, polyamorous mom of two. Authentically approaching parenting, mental health, creativity and more. Follow my journey!

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