Re-Set Your Tech for Digital Balance

Denise Lisi DeRosa
Digital Wellness Collective
4 min readFeb 22, 2021

2020 is finally in the rearview mirror but the challenges we faced in 2020 are not fully resolved. While some communities are slowly opening up, many of us are still working from home beside our children who are still learning remotely. We can’t fully move past physical distancing so we can’t break away from our reliance on screens to socially connect, but there are a few steps each one of us can take to find digital balance during the prolonged pandemic. Here are my tips to re-set your tech in 2021.

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Tidy Up Your Devices

Go through your phone, laptop, iPad, even your DVR and clean out any unnecessary clutter. Remove unused apps and games. Clear any bookmarks from your browsers that you no longer need. Keeping only the most essential apps and folders on your desktop or homescreen will help you to concentrate on what is most important and declutter your mind.

Limit Tech Distractions

Staying focused while using technology is increasingly difficult. Google searches for ‘how to get your brain to focus’ increased 300% during the pandemic. A few quick steps you can take to help get in the zone — pause, limit, or simply turn-off distracting notifications from any apps, games, or websites so you are not tempted to divert your attention from what is important. Really consider if those beeps on your phone are important enough to be disrupted from your current task. If not, set devices on do-not-disturb while working, sleeping, or spending quality time with family. Reserve time to check and respond to email then block it out so you can concentrate on important tasks and projects. Get more tips on streamlining your email use here: How to Stop Wasting 2.5 Hours on Email Everyday.

Resist the News Alarms

No news is good news, right? Throughout the day, shut out the alarming news headlines not relevant to what you need to accomplish. Of course, staying informed is important, but the 24-hour news cycle is draining. Instead, set time to catch up on the news either in the morning or evening and then resist the pull for ‘breaking news’ and non-stop infotainment delivered to your device.

Improve Your Newsfeed

Just like nutrition, your digital diet affects how you feel and function. Control the content in your newsfeed so you are energized, not depleted from what you consume. Friend, follow, and like content that motivates and inspires you. Mute, unfollow, or ignore posts that are created with the intent to enrage, scare and cause a negative reaction. The more you engage with posts that have a positive impact on you, the more that type of content will be delivered to your screens, and the better you will feel.

Disengage from Negativity

Are you part of a social media community group that seems to bicker more than collaborate? Do you have an online connection who is more interested in judging, arguing, or negating your point of view than in a productive discussion? If yes, it may be time to leave that group behind. Any person or group that is more taxing than encouraging needs to be eliminated from your daily routine. Get tips from the Center for Humane Tech on eliminating outrage from your digital diet.

Establish Clear Limits

When work and home are within the same four walls, setting boundaries is important. As much as possible, help your kids understand that while you work from home, you are still working so ask them not to interrupt you unless necessary. It is also important to set the same boundaries for your co-workers. You do not need to be available during non-work hours and weekends just because technology makes it possible. Establish working hours and set some rules and expectations around when you will be offline. We are all struggling with the same issues so it is perfectly reasonable for you to let others know that emails received late in the evening may not be responded to until the next day. Learn more about The Right to Disconnect movement why no-email weekends are essential to recharge.

Disconnect

Your phone is not attached to you so don’t let it become a noose. Remember, it’s a tool to connect with people and ideas but you are free to take a break to recharge, digest, process, and center yourself. When possible, exercise, step outside, enjoy nature and leave your tech behind.

A total tech re-set is hard because we remain dependent on our devices to connect with the outside world. The most important change you can make is to your mindset. It is not about the total screen time, it’s more about the quality of time spent online. Focus on using technology mindfully and with purpose to achieve the balance that is best for you.

This post originally appeared on the Cyber Sensible blog.

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Denise Lisi DeRosa
Digital Wellness Collective

Digital Wellness Coach for Cyber Sensible, Denise is an expert in online safety, digital citizenship, media and culture, and a speaker on tech life topics.