Unveiling True Complexion: Rozella Marie’s Impactful Advocacy for Mental Health and Disability
Radiating beneath the brilliant illumination of prestigious stages and influential partnerships with brands such as TEDxKL, Intel, and IT Cosmetics, Rozella’s story takes shape as a captivating journey of self-discovery and navigating challenges within the luminous ambiance of public acclaim.
Despite the external success, Rozella’s inner journey began on her 27th birthday, a transformative moment prompting her to contemplate her outlook for the future. This pivotal moment ignited her quest for self-healing, eventually leading her to acquire a decade’s worth of tools and techniques for mental, emotional, and physical well-being.
In this article, we will dive deep into Rozella’s personal journey, delving into the profound facets of her experiences with self-compassion, her dedicated advocacy for disability awareness, and the ongoing pursuits that define her present endeavours.
Personal Journey
‘Can you share your personal journey and experiences that led you to become an advocate for mental health, self-love, and body image?’
‘Growing up with a prominent birthmark on my face was challenging, to say the least. Standing out in a crowd made me feel like an outsider, as if I didn’t deserve to be here. The constant teasing and bullying led me to retreat further away from the glaring eyes of everyone else.
My battle with depression began at the age of 11. Although I didn’t have a name for it back then, I was acutely aware that I didn’t want to exist in a world that condemned me for something beyond my control. In my 20s, my self-hatred intensified, leading to self-destructive behaviours like excessive partying and drinking. Numbing the pain became my default coping mechanism.
On my 27th birthday, I was so intoxicated that I passed out before midnight and ended up in the doctor’s office with alcohol poisoning. It was a stark wake-up call. I realised that if I continued down this destructive path, I might end up taking my own life, one way or another. And so began the journey to discover who I am beyond my skin, marking the start of my survival story, rather than a tale of self-love.’
Individual Empowerment:
‘Can you share instances where your advocacy work has empowered individuals with disabilities to embrace self-love and positive body image?’
‘In my journey with True Complexion, I’ve seen the real impact of sharing stories. Creating a space for open and honest expression has helped individuals connect beyond the surface of the conditions we live with. Sometimes, people tend to focus solely on those conditions, forgetting that behind them are individuals with emotions, thoughts, ideas, and dreams. My goal is simple — to humanise, to make sure everyone feels heard and seen, and to let those struggling know they’re not alone in their battles. It’s about offering some comfort and a glimmer of hope as they navigate their own challenges.’
Peer Support and Confidence Building:
‘How have you seen peer support and community engagement contribute to building confidence among disabled individuals, particularly in the context of body image acceptance?’
‘In my experience, the adage ‘no man is an island’ holds true. The presence of a community that truly understands the challenges you face is invaluable. This support becomes a lifeline, especially in navigating through the darkness. Personally, I owe much of my journey to friends and professionals who not only pulled me out of that darkness but also guided me in channelling my emotions into something positive. The collaborative strength of a community is, in my belief, indispensable on this path. It’s too easy for the mind to wander back into darker thoughts when traversing this journey alone.’
Overcoming Internalised Stigmas:
‘Individuals with disabilities may internalise societal stigmas. How do you address and support the process of overcoming internalised stigmas to enhance self-confidence and body positivity?’
‘As previously mentioned, establishing a supportive community is crucial. It’s not just about creating a safe space; it’s about crafting a platform where individuals with disabilities can authentically be themselves and envision a future beyond societal limitations. Often, the most significant barrier we face is the limiting belief imposed on us by others, asserting that this is as far as we can go.
In my personal experience, I’ve witnessed transformative change when individuals are given the chance to leverage their stories and talents for a greater purpose. In projects I undertake for clients, I consciously strive to involve individuals from our community, showcasing their strengths and talents through avenues such as public speaking or design work. In these moments, a deep sense of value and achievement emerges, demonstrating that they have much more to offer than society might suggest.’
Collaborative Efforts:
‘Are there specific collaborations or initiatives you’ve undertaken that directly address the intersection of mental health and disabilities? How have these collaborations contributed to fostering compassion and understanding?’
‘Often, when individuals discuss mental health, it’s treated as a separate, significant topic. In reality, though, when navigating life’s challenges, be they related to disability or other hurdles, one’s mental well-being is inevitably affected. For individuals with disabilities, the daily obstacles we encounter can significantly impact our mental well-being. It’s akin to a delicate balance, how tightly the grip of these challenges holds or whether we learn to loosen that grip and walk alongside them comfortably without being entirely consumed. So, to answer your question, there is no single specific effort because it always intersects.’
Personal Compassion Journey:
‘Can you share a specific experience or moment in your personal journey where extending compassion towards yourself helped you better understand and connect with the challenges faced by disabled individuals?’
‘People often think facial birthmarks only affect how you look, but there’s more to it. Depending on the type, birthmarks can be linked to complicated issues. The port-wine stain on my face is due to a rare neurological condition called Sturge-Weber Syndrome (SWS). It goes beyond aesthetics; it can impact your vision and even your brain function, leading to seizures.
When the birthmark is too close to your eye, it presses against the nerve and can cause glaucoma, which is irreversible. Not a lot of people know this, but I’m completely blind in my left eye due to SWS. I’m sharing this as I will be in the process of getting an OKU card.
Friends have asked if having this card will be emotionally unsettling, as it seems like a stamp, branding me. However, I don’t perceive it that way. My condition doesn’t define who I am or limit my capabilities; I am more than a piece of plastic with some words on it. Instead, I see it as a tool, a means to access crucial benefits, especially as I age and uncertainties lie ahead regarding my condition.’
Next Chapter
In wrapping up, Rozella extends a heartfelt invitation to forge meaningful partnerships with big brands, corporations, small businesses, non-governmental organisations, universities, and schools. She seeks like-minded collaborators who share a passion for empowering individuals on transformative journeys.
Rozella’s expertise, not only in advocacy but also in conducting Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion (DEI) training programs, is tailored for those ready to embrace a new era of understanding, inclusivity, and personal and professional growth. Rozella actively engages in educating on crucial inclusion topics such as unconscious bias, cultural competency, microaggressions, and inclusive leadership.
Her focus spans across both corporate and governmental realms, as well as educational institutions. Whether the aim is to enhance confidence and productivity or to cultivate the art of impactful storytelling that ignites action, Rozella eagerly welcomes collaborative endeavors.
Through these partnerships, she envisions co-creating a powerful narrative of empowerment and positive change, leaving an indelible mark on those poised for personal and professional growth. This dual commitment to both advocacy and DEI training reflects a holistic approach, fostering environments that champion diversity, inclusion, and personal development.
We invite you to watch a short documentary that provides an in-depth look at Rozella’s organisation, True Complexion. Discover the impact, stories, and empowerment that unfold within this transformative initiative
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Rozella’s music journey
In the last seven years, Rozella has released 14 original songs, accumulating over 400,000 listens on platforms like Spotify and Soundcloud. She has graced stages at various music festivals, corporate events, and indie shows, captivating audiences of up to 3,000 people per performance.
Notably, her Tiger Jams-winning single “Home to You” received a remix by CHVRCHES in 2015. Her single “XOXO” gained prominence by featuring on 14 New Music Friday playlists on Spotify, including the influential US New Music Friday playlist. Rozella’s distinct voice extends beyond her music, making appearances in radio, TV, and online commercials, as well as corporate videos.
Join Rozella’s vibrant community and be part of the journey towards self-discovery, empowerment, and positive change.
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Author’s Note: The content of this article is based on responses provided by Rozella during an interview. The insights shared reflect her personal experiences, perspectives, and achievements.
