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To people who offer to help but cannot deliver

One of the biggest pet peeves I have are people who offer to help but cannot deliver. This can sound really entitled dependent on what your personality is and whether you trust other people, so please bear with me as I try to explain.

This is specifically for people who offer to help because they aspirationally want to be a good person but realistically do not set boundaries around their own time and aren’t typically able to offer the kind of help that they’re offering.




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