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As we get older, our circles get smaller.

Most people I’ve chatted with agree that as we age, the friendships that remain and the types of people we surround ourselves change drastically. Of course, this is heavily impacted by life events — careers, partnerships, children, and everyday life stuff all competes for our time and attention.




We’re about anything that helps us to live a good life that also happens to be good for others, and our planet.

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