Practicing Non-Attachment following the Death of a Loved One.


I’d been in Los Angeles in my brother’s house for a week now. But we didn’t talk about it.

Finally, I asked him about Stéph’s ashes.

He told me they’d arrived five weeks ago in a yellow packet, which he’d kept in an empty vase next to his record player.



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