LIFE
I Don’t Believe in Dedications
Or maybe it’s because you say it best when you say nothing
When my first book was about to be published, the editor asked me if I would like to add a dedication page to my manuscript. It didn’t take long for me to politely reply, No. It’s funny that almost every book I own and have read has one. There’s always someone dear (or a few) to address who deserves a few heartfelt words that will be permanent in print. The editor asked me twice, and on both occasions, I said, “Thank you, but none for this one.”
You would think that your very first book would be your magnum opus. As an introduction to the world, many would think it is a feat you may not repeat, and that alone makes it most meaningful to milk all you have for all its worth.
I know many writer friends who have penned the dedication page long before their book is finished. I recall once in creative writing class, the lecturer made us write a two-minute acceptance speech at a make-believe Oscars ceremony. It was a good exercise, one that I emulated many years later in my own writing classes. It makes you remember people who are important for your success. The point, according to my lecturer, is to note the people you appreciate for their support, presence, and posterity.
