I was in Love with Two Narcissists at Once

My journey to hell, and how long before I even realized it was hell.

He will hold your hand unless you want him to. Then you’re needy. Photo by Octavio Fossatti on Unsplash

Several years ago, I was in “situationships” who two men. I thought I was in love with both of them.

One was more assertive, one was more passive. Even though we spent a lot of time together, met family members, knew one another intimately, and said our…




Dispelling the notion of the perpetually suffering genius.

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