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I Learned How Much Rejection Men Deal With When I Asked a Man Out Myself

I Learned How Much Rejection Men Deal With When I Asked a Man Out Myself

Dating isn’t “easier” for men.
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Elle Silver
What Happens When Your Divorce Makes Your Kids Sad and There’s Nothing You Can Do About It?

What Happens When Your Divorce Makes Your Kids Sad and There’s Nothing You Can Do About It?

I’ve just had to accept it.
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Elle Silver
I Share Custody With My Ex, but My Kids Hate Staying With Their Father

I Share Custody With My Ex, but My Kids Hate Staying With Their Father

He doesn’t care for them like I do.
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Elle Silver
Is It Weird to Regift Toys My Kids Don’t Want to My Ex’s Girlfriend’s Children?

Is It Weird to Regift Toys My Kids Don’t Want to My Ex’s Girlfriend’s Children?

I’m trying to show I’m past our divorce. But is the gesture gauche?
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Elle Silver
Why You Should Never Use Old Photos in Your Tinder Profile

Why You Should Never Use Old Photos in Your Tinder Profile

I might have liked my date if I could recognize him.
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Elle Silver
Whether a Man Makes His Bed Each Morning IS an Important Dating Compatibility Question

Whether a Man Makes His Bed Each Morning IS an Important Dating Compatibility Question

And why I should have known better when I saw my ex-husband didn’t.
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13 Types of Men I Met on Tinder After My Divorce

13 Types of Men I Met on Tinder After My Divorce

#7: Tall, dark, and jobless.
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I Realized I Wanted a Divorce While Having Sex With My Husband

I Realized I Wanted a Divorce While Having Sex With My Husband

This was my moment of clarity. I needed to leave my marriage.
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I Chose to Have Children at an Older Age

I Chose to Have Children at an Older Age

Every woman has the right to decide when the time is right for her.
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Elle Silver
My Husband Destroyed My Birthday Present From My Sister

My Husband Destroyed My Birthday Present From My Sister

It was a visceral sign to leave. I ignored it and stayed.
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Elle Silver
Cheating on My Husband Made Me a Better Mother

Cheating on My Husband Made Me a Better Mother

My affair made me happier and, by consequence, also my kids.
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