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In Vain Asylum
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Financially, Divorce Hits Women Harder Than Men
Financially, Divorce Hits Women Harder Than Men
This was my experience. Here’s why.
Elle Silver
Feb 19
A Woman on a Dating Site Scammed $9000 Out of My Ex
A Woman on a Dating Site Scammed $9000 Out of My Ex
Dating-app con artists are professionals.
Elle Silver
Feb 7
My Ex-Husband Gets $5000/Month From His Parents But Only Gives Me $500/Month in Child Support
My Ex-Husband Gets $5000/Month From His Parents But Only Gives Me $500/Month in Child Support
At least I’ve kept my dignity.
Elle Silver
Jan 27
“Foodie Calls”: When Women Go on Dates With Men Just for a Free Meal
“Foodie Calls”: When Women Go on Dates With Men Just for a Free Meal
I regret letting men pay for my dinner when I wasn’t romantically interested in them.
Elle Silver
Dec 7, 2021
I Brought My Kids Along on My First Date With a Man I Met on Tinder
I Brought My Kids Along on My First Date With a Man I Met on Tinder
My date was cool with my sons, but I never heard from him again.
Elle Silver
Dec 3, 2021
The Holiday Season Is Here and Again I Feel Bad My Kids Have a Broken Home
The Holiday Season Is Here and Again I Feel Bad My Kids Have a Broken Home
My children are missing out on a warm, fuzzy holiday experience with a cohesive family unit. Still, it’s for the best that my ex and I are…
Elle Silver
Dec 2, 2021
My Older Son Bullies My Younger Son and It’s Making Him Depressed
My Older Son Bullies My Younger Son and It’s Making Him Depressed
The bullying won’t stop until my son stands up to his older brother.
Elle Silver
Nov 19, 2021
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My Autistic Child Has No Friends and It’s Heartbreaking to Watch
My Autistic Child Has No Friends and It’s Heartbreaking to Watch
Kids with autism spectrum disorder often have difficulty making friends because of social awkwardness and anxiety.
Elle Silver
Nov 16, 2021
My Husband Destroyed My Birthday Present From My Sister
My Husband Destroyed My Birthday Present From My Sister
It was a visceral sign to leave. I ignored it and stayed.
Elle Silver
Dec 22, 2019
Why I Meet Men From Tinder in Parks Instead of Letting Them Buy Me Dinner
Why I Meet Men From Tinder in Parks Instead of Letting Them Buy Me Dinner
I do this for our first meeting. If we end up liking each other, then we make a dinner date.
Elle Silver
Nov 15, 2021
What Dating Was Like as a Female in the ‘90s
What Dating Was Like as a Female in the ‘90s
No Tinder, no Uber, no Netflix n’ chill: the horrors of dating in my 20s and what I’ve learned since.
Elle Silver
Oct 25, 2019
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