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In Vain Asylum

Stories about love and hate.

  • Relationships
  • Dating
  • Divorce
  • Parenting
  • Sex
  • Marriage
  • Financially, Divorce Hits Women Harder Than Men

    Financially, Divorce Hits Women Harder Than Men

    This was my experience. Here’s why.
    Go to the profile of Elle Silver
    Elle Silver
    Feb 19
    A Woman on a Dating Site Scammed $9000 Out of My Ex

    A Woman on a Dating Site Scammed $9000 Out of My Ex

    Dating-app con artists are professionals.
    Go to the profile of Elle Silver
    Elle Silver
    Feb 7
    My Ex-Husband Gets $5000/Month From His Parents But Only Gives Me $500/Month in Child Support

    My Ex-Husband Gets $5000/Month From His Parents But Only Gives Me $500/Month in Child Support

    At least I’ve kept my dignity.
    Go to the profile of Elle Silver
    Elle Silver
    Jan 27
    “Foodie Calls”: When Women Go on Dates With Men Just for a Free Meal

    “Foodie Calls”: When Women Go on Dates With Men Just for a Free Meal

    I regret letting men pay for my dinner when I wasn’t romantically interested in them.
    Go to the profile of Elle Silver
    Elle Silver
    Dec 7, 2021
    I Brought My Kids Along on My First Date With a Man I Met on Tinder

    I Brought My Kids Along on My First Date With a Man I Met on Tinder

    My date was cool with my sons, but I never heard from him again.
    Go to the profile of Elle Silver
    Elle Silver
    Dec 3, 2021
    The Holiday Season Is Here and Again I Feel Bad My Kids Have a Broken Home

    The Holiday Season Is Here and Again I Feel Bad My Kids Have a Broken Home

    My children are missing out on a warm, fuzzy holiday experience with a cohesive family unit. Still, it’s for the best that my ex and I are…
    Go to the profile of Elle Silver
    Elle Silver
    Dec 2, 2021
    My Older Son Bullies My Younger Son and It’s Making Him Depressed

    My Older Son Bullies My Younger Son and It’s Making Him Depressed

    The bullying won’t stop until my son stands up to his older brother.
    Go to the profile of Elle Silver
    Elle Silver
    Nov 19, 2021
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    My Autistic Child Has No Friends and It’s Heartbreaking to Watch

    My Autistic Child Has No Friends and It’s Heartbreaking to Watch

    Kids with autism spectrum disorder often have difficulty making friends because of social awkwardness and anxiety.
    Go to the profile of Elle Silver
    Elle Silver
    Nov 16, 2021
    My Husband Destroyed My Birthday Present From My Sister

    My Husband Destroyed My Birthday Present From My Sister

    It was a visceral sign to leave. I ignored it and stayed.
    Go to the profile of Elle Silver
    Elle Silver
    Dec 22, 2019
    Why I Meet Men From Tinder in Parks Instead of Letting Them Buy Me Dinner

    Why I Meet Men From Tinder in Parks Instead of Letting Them Buy Me Dinner

    I do this for our first meeting. If we end up liking each other, then we make a dinner date.
    Go to the profile of Elle Silver
    Elle Silver
    Nov 15, 2021
    What Dating Was Like as a Female in the ‘90s

    What Dating Was Like as a Female in the ‘90s

    No Tinder, no Uber, no Netflix n’ chill: the horrors of dating in my 20s and what I’ve learned since.
    Go to the profile of Elle Silver
    Elle Silver
    Oct 25, 2019
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