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B is for Blueberry Fetish, F is for Fornophilia

A Dictionary of Curious Kinks for Kinktober, Part 1 of 4: A to F

Ena Dahl
Essensually Ena
Published in
9 min readOct 9, 2023

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Sculptor and artist Allen Jones with his trademark fornophillic work, Hatstand, Table and Chair 1970, via Autre Love Journal

A kink is defined as anything that falls outside of what society considers mainstream or normal sexual behavior. It can’t get much vaguer than that, right? Especially since what is normal to me might be foreign or weird to you, and vice versa. But, if normal equals lights-off, hetero, Missionary POV, I’m quite certain everyone’s at least a little bit kinky.

For me, much has changed since I started defining myself as kinky. While my core erotic theme has remained more or less consistent, I notice that certain things no longer speak to me the way they used to, while others — some of which I formerly considered a kink too far — are suddenly calling my name.

For Kinktober, I’ve created a four-part Dictionary of Curious Kinks as a way to celebrate and investigate my own kinks and fantasies, as well as those that for various reasons tickle my curiosity, whether it be because I’m intrigued, fascinated, or even a tad mystified.

A is for Algolagnia, Agrexophilia & Agoraphilia

Algolagnia

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Ena Dahl
Essensually Ena

Multidisciplinary creatrix; conscious kink & sensuality coach, educator, author, energy worker & rope (s)witch.