Create With Your Libido—Fuck With Your Creativity

All of our vital energy spring from the same source.

Ena Dahl
Essensually Ena
Published in
8 min readDec 31, 2019

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All of your vital energy comes from the same place. In many Germanic languages, this energy is referred to urkraft, translating to primordial force or life force in English.

Every creative and productive thing we do, including sex, is fueled by this source. Sex is, in fact, the ultimate expression of creativity; it is the essence of creation. Our libido gives birth to all life, as well as to our passions and artistic expressions.

We all possess it; some seemingly stronger than others and appear to be beaming with vitality—while others seem depleted. We all have access to the source, but not all know how to tap into and direct its current. Oftentimes, our flow is disturbed or distracted by outside factors.

Sex is the ultimate expression of creativity; it is the essence of creation. Our libido gives birth to all life.

This connection became apparent to me a few years ago when trying to make sense of personal experiences. Morgan, my best friend, separated from her husband just before I left my own, and while our partners were different, they had a few strong traits in common:

Her ex, Aiden, was a self-absorbed artist of the covert and quiet kind, while my former partner, Damon, was the loud and grandiose type. Other than that, they were both very much in their heads, always intellectualizing while being seeming out of touch with their bodies.

Aiden had next to no sex drive, but, an overflow of creative energy. Damon was always at work improving his mental skills, while his physical-self was given little attention. He was quick-witted with a body language best described as sluggish.

Morgan and I, on the contrary, are sensualists; we’re naturally sexual beings, very much in tune with our bodies.

How did the two of us end up with near asexual partners? Why were we, who yearned for deep, mind-body connection, drawn to guys who fulfilled their spiritual needs through ways of the mind alone?

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Ena Dahl
Essensually Ena

Multidisciplinary creatrix; conscious kink & sensuality coach, educator, author, energy worker & rope (s)witch.