My Sex Bucket List

Make my naughty wishlist come true!

Ena Dahl
Essensually Ena
Published in
8 min readNov 20, 2019

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I’ve been hesitating with this bucket list, because, to me, sex and to-do lists don’t belong in the same sentence. For sex to stay fun and enjoyable, it can’t be distilled into tasks. My average to-do list includes points like, book a dentist appointment and finish VAT returns—no fun!

‘Wishlist’ has a better ring to it in this context. My holiday wishlist contains items like spa-gifts card and various body care products that I hardly splurge on for myself. Adventurous sexcapades should be like this; opulent and luxurious treats—little escapes from the daily grind.

Another challenge was what to put on my list. After becoming single for the first time since high school, less than three years ago, I launched like a space rocket into my sexual exploration, taking me to 2.0 and beyond at lightning speed. But there’s ALWAYS more to be explored. While I expect this list to change and morph with time, I’m jumping on this recent fad and serving you a handful of my naughtiest fantasies. And after all, Christmas is around the corner, and I’ve been a veeery good girl!

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I’ll have both, thank you! (DP)

My first threesome was with two men, but there was no double penetration involved. In hindsight, this was for the…

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Ena Dahl
Essensually Ena

Multidisciplinary creatrix; conscious kink & sensuality coach, educator, author, energy worker & rope (s)witch.