The anatomy of sex & storytelling | Part 02
The Best-Worst Fantasy Someone Sent Me
With feedback, comments, and guidance on how to improve your sex/storytelling skills.
Intro
The following story is a slight edit of a fantasy ‘sexted’ to me by a guy I dated briefly. He was unfamiliar with the world of BDSM and powerplay, but after learning that I wasn’t, he got inspired and wanted to send me his own version of a D/s scenario.
I’d agreed to receive the story and had already let him in on a few of my kinks, so I was prepared for something fairly explicit, but nothing could have prepared me for what you’re about to read.
Jesper, which isn’t the guy’s real name, is, contrary to the impression you might get from his story, a very sweet and kind guy. But, a writer or artist, he is not. His past sexual experiences were rather humdrum, so all of this was uncharted territory to him—but because of his eagerness to expand his horizons, I encouraged him.
I’m not using his story to shame him, but rather as a point of conversation about the similarities between sex and storytelling, and how improving our storytelling skills can improve our ability to ‘write’, think up—and act out—more intriguing sex-scenarios as well.
