LIMITS OF TOLERANCE
1
Having proposed we defer to all with the phrase
“Not my will but thine be done”
How do I deal with the intolerable
How do I address a clear rejection
How do I practice love and still stand tall
2
What is intolerable is
Any speech or act that is harmful or hurtful
Often I will note it with a reaction
In most cases I need not finger a Soul
It is the sentiment I will not tolerate
But merely sensing that my reaction is satisfactory
Is an egoic exercise
I need to offer something positive that might inspire others
3
Rejections are challenges and it all depends
Sometimes bliss lies in ignoring
But other times there may be common ground
Play these by ear
Do not give tit for tat
Always know you are talking to a Soul
Who freely follows his or her own way
If you value your own freedom
You will find a loving way to respond
4
Practicing love and standing tall
Is balance in the face of provocation
Whatever your response is
Positive thoughts should lead
To positive results
We have no need to exacerbate
The toxicity of the intolerable
We can either walk away with a prayer for reconciliation
Or we can follow one of the paths suggested here
Or you can tap your own fund of affirmative responses