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Breaking news (apparently): Smut writers have boundaries too
Everyone should know this, but here we are
I don’t know what it is with people (mostly men, but we all knew that) and their complete inability to separate content from creator.
Just because someone writes about a filthy anal gangbang does not mean he or she or they (mostly women, but we all knew that) wants to have one in real life, let alone with you, Internet Stranger.
Just because a writer might share their fantasy (and the best erotica is the writer’s deep, personal fantasy) doesn’t mean they are picturing you fulfilling it, @ilovesexyfeet69.
And just because someone writes smut does not mean they’ve thrown their online door wide open to flirting, teasing, dick pics, or a story featuring them. Don’t invade their virtual home like a criminal. And don’t act like a violent, abusive shithead when the door is slammed in your face for being a perv.
This, it should go without saying, applies to everyone, whether they write smut, have an OnlyFans, do sexy audios, post nudes, or anything else they choose to do online. Everyone. Because people are not sex objects (this apparently also…
