Great advice to all young and old female

Abbot Ace
Explore Poetry
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2 min readDec 30, 2023


A woman has sêx because she wants the man.

A man has sêx because he wants sêx.

Do you see the difference?

Sêx is a physical thing to a man.

But for a woman, sêx is both physical and emotional.

A woman can have sēx because of love. But a man can have sêx because of sêx.

Before a woman can have sêx with you, she must have feēlings for you. She must have that emotional attachment to you, Not talking about those trying there for Møney in the name of Hoøk up, Stop it. Heaven is watching ❤️🙏

That EROS dimension of love will be there.

Hārdly will you find a woman having sêx with a man she does not love? Except if she’s a prøstitute.

But for a man, the reverse can be the case. A man may have no iota of love for you and still have sêx with you.

This is why a man can hire a prøstitute just to have sêx. He doesn’t need to love the prøstitute before he fulfils his sèxual desire.

Now, understand this:

As a woman, a man can use you to feed his sexūal desires. He can even give you money. He can take you out. All because he wants sêx, not you!

If you want to know if a man truly loves you, don’t give him sêx. Sit back and watch.

If he leaves you because you don’t give him sêx, then he doesn’t love you. He only loves sêx!

Dear young adult girl!

As you’re growing up and getting closer to the journey of marriage life..pls try to understand that you can choose a husband for yourself but your kids can’t choose their father, while choosing a father for them pls choose a father, a friend, a tutor, a prophet, and guidance for them…

And don’t forget to be a good mother. you can raise a hero and not a zero

A wedding ring is the smallest handcuff ever made, so think deeply, choose your prisøn mate carefully and sentence yourself wisely, to avoid prisøn break.



Abbot Ace
Explore Poetry

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