If I Had to Quit Drinking Again, This is What I’d Do Differently

Reflecting on the mistakes I made when I got sober.

Benya Clark
Exploring Sobriety

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This essay originally appeared in the Exploring Sobriety newsletter.

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It’s been over six and a half years since I quit drinking. Although sobriety is going great these days, it didn’t start off so well.

My first year sober was rough, and the first couple of weeks were nearly impossible. I made it through, but I made a lot of mistakes along the way.

The people who read this newsletter are at all different stages of their recovery. Some have been sober for decades, others are just beginning to think about getting sober. In today’s addition, I have that latter group in mind.

I’d like to reflect on some of the things that I did wrong while getting sober, how those mistakes hurt me, and what I’d do differently if I had to quit drinking again.

I’m not trying to claim that this is universal advice that will help every addict, but I do hope that if you’re trying to quit drinking or planning to try soon, today’s edition of the newsletter will at least give you a few strategies to consider.

My first day sober was New Year’s Eve, and I chose the date not only because of the symbolic significance of the new year…

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Benya Clark
Benya Clark

Written by Benya Clark

I’m a lawyer turned writer from North Carolina. I write about sobriety, mental health, and more. Subscribe to my weekly newsletter at exploringsobriety.com.

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