In order to better service my intended audience, we need to discuss who that audience includes.
Human beings who identify as male or female, regardless of their assigned birth gender and/or squishy bits.
There is an incredibly broad spectrum as of wonderfully late, and this is for anyone who is sexually interested in other humans in whatever flavor that attraction may take.
Granted, a lot of this is going to read female and male, but think of it less as binary and more as a starting off point that applies to you as, well, it applies to you. Don’t like boobs? Skip the boob chapters. Not interested in penis? Skip the penis chapters. Like boobs and penis? Then read everything!
Let’s remember that the experience is unique to each and every human being out there, and there is no way in the world I can cover everything and everyone. So hang in there with me, okay? Maybe this can turn into a series that touches on each little umbrella under the big relationship umbrella someday, but today is not that day, folks.
P.S. I am always open to positive suggestions. Telling me that I am not an ally to the community is offensive, because as a demisexual cis-woman with a cis-male partner makes me part of the community.
Don’t be a douche canoe.