Fearless She Wrote
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Fearless She Wrote

Can an Abuser Change?

Most experts say no if it is narcissistic abuse. Here’s why.

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“Bored reading material for a bunch of uneducated idiots.”

That is what J. Edgar* called my writing. (I was more offended by “the uneducated idiots” accusation. My readers are brilliant.)

I didn’t respond to his insult. I could have cracked jokes like I always do. Since most…




This is a space to empower differences, tell our stories, and share our lives together. We will not be silenced. We will be fearless. And we will write.

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Carlyn Beccia

Carlyn Beccia

Author & illustrator. My latest books — 10 AT 10, MONSTROUS: THE LORE, GORE, & SCIENCE, and THEY LOST THEIR HEADS. Contact: CarlynBeccia.com

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