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Fearless She Wrote

I Hold My Breath When I Receive Online Comments from Middle-Aged Men

This is an instinctual, defensive habit I didn’t realize I’d adopted until recently.

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As a full-time writer in my business, I receive a lot of feedback and notes on my published work.

Half the time, these notes are understandably from men.




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Gillian Sisley

Gillian Sisley

Professional online writer. Tea drinker. Committed optimist. I write about parenting conundrums and navigating complex relationships.

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