Maybe I Should Assume Everyone Thinks I’m Gay

Navigating coming out when your sexuality is invisible.

Mar 16, 2020 · 7 min read
Photo by Eugenio Marongiu. Image licensed from Canva.

Oh, how I envy my visibly queer siblings. The butches whose shaved head or button-down shirt can declare their sexual preference without a need for words. Androgynous deities who scoff in the face of binaries and make us all realize desire can be fluid. Or the fearless femmes from all over the…