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            <title><![CDATA[ERGs: The Good, the Great and the Ghostly]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://gwennakadima.medium.com/ergs-the-good-the-great-and-the-ghostly-592ea8c9bcd?source=rss-d68b73901308------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2600/0*AZZtw8eM0C4lta5J" width="2832"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Despite their prevalence, Employee Resource Groups (ERGs) have varying levels of impact. Sometimes, the differences can get a little&#x2026;</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://gwennakadima.medium.com/ergs-the-good-the-great-and-the-ghostly-592ea8c9bcd?source=rss-d68b73901308------2">Continue reading on Medium »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Wed, 07 Jun 2023 13:38:51 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Employee Resource Groups: A Catalyst for Business Success]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://gwennakadima.medium.com/employee-resource-groups-a-catalyst-for-business-success-1b3db90c360d?source=rss-d68b73901308------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2600/0*dsPVTVozJR29kVRl" width="3600"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Employee Resource Groups (ERGs) are voluntary, employee-led communities that provide a platform for their members to foster connections&#x2026;</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://gwennakadima.medium.com/employee-resource-groups-a-catalyst-for-business-success-1b3db90c360d?source=rss-d68b73901308------2">Continue reading on Medium »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Wed, 17 May 2023 15:00:33 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[4 Lessons from My First 4 Months as an Independent Consultant]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://gwennakadima.medium.com/4-lessons-from-my-first-4-months-as-an-independent-consultant-c14cef4f9b34?source=rss-d68b73901308------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2600/0*XX-A-kGVoGfUrmkq" width="6423"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Big wins and blunders as a new consultant.</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://gwennakadima.medium.com/4-lessons-from-my-first-4-months-as-an-independent-consultant-c14cef4f9b34?source=rss-d68b73901308------2">Continue reading on Medium »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Thu, 12 Jan 2023 18:25:33 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Signs Your Prospective Employer May Not Be Sincere in Its D&I Efforts]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Mon, 01 Feb 2021 14:46:26 GMT</pubDate>
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            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Signs your prospective employer may not be sincere in its D&amp;I efforts</h3><p>Why these signs matter and what organizations are hopefully doing instead</p><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/0*3abdZc65bg794GqV" /><figcaption>Photo by <a href="https://unsplash.com/@ayahya09?utm_source=medium&amp;utm_medium=referral">Ali Yahya</a> on <a href="https://unsplash.com?utm_source=medium&amp;utm_medium=referral">Unsplash</a></figcaption></figure><p>These days, any organization worth its salt has clued into the importance of workplace diversity and inclusion (D&amp;I). You’d be hard-pressed to find a company or institution that doesn’t show imagery of smiling, diverse “employees” on every page of its careers site or sign off every job posting with the requisite “Equal Opportunity Employer” clause.</p><p>This transition to more inclusive branding is positive; however, the walk doesn’t always match the talk.</p><p>If you’re a candidate who prioritizes organizational D&amp;I, it can be overwhelming to discern which organizations are sincere and who’s just paying lip-service.</p><p>Thankfully, you’re not the only one who considers feeling safe and included in your organization as non-negotiable. I’ve been in the same boat. It looks like others are too.</p><blockquote>“83% of Gen Z candidates said that a company’s commitment to diversity and inclusion is important when choosing an employer.” — Monster, 2018¹</blockquote><p>Back in 2018 when I started seriously job hunting, I eagle-eyed every organization for its stance on D&amp;I. It was, and still is, my biggest criteria for choosing the right employer. Through that exercise, my continued work in the D&amp;I space, and ongoing conversations with similarly-valued current students and recent grads, I picked up on a few signs to indicate which organizations are likely in it for the D&amp;I-long haul.</p><p>If you’re not sure how to see through the smoke and mirrors, read on for three tells of a potentially immature or insincere organization when it comes to D&amp;I. In the respective “Why This Matters” and “What to Look For” subheadings, I’ll break down why each of these signs are significant and the specific company information and behaviours that can indicate whether or not they’ve missed the mark.</p><p>The following should be taken as guidelines and not a “one size fits all” list. If the organization you’re considering (or currently employed with) doesn’t check all of these boxes, don’t immediately cancel them. Treat a less than perfect score as an opportunity to ask further questions.</p><h3>1. Leadership is White and Male</h3><h4>Why This Matters</h4><p>As if it were correlated, the whiteness and maleness of corporate leadership is almost as ubiquitous as the need for D&amp;I strategies and actions.</p><iframe src="https://cdn.embedly.com/widgets/media.html?src=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.tiktok.com%2Fembed%2F6912163623469141253&amp;display_name=tiktok&amp;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.tiktok.com%2F%40bri_xu%2Fvideo%2F6912163623469141253&amp;image=https%3A%2F%2Fp16-sign-va.tiktokcdn.com%2Ftos-maliva-p-0068%2Fe28673dd795d49ebb79c11f7d6f4b6e6_1609363522%7Etplv-tiktok-play.jpeg%3Fx-expires%3D1612173600%26x-signature%3Dj7omaL07dgCrpj%252FlLbaoC63CrRs%253D&amp;key=a19fcc184b9711e1b4764040d3dc5c07&amp;type=text%2Fhtml&amp;schema=tiktok" width="340" height="700" frameborder="0" scrolling="no"><a href="https://medium.com/media/68fc2c9ec75125394f9485443c47ee16/href">https://medium.com/media/68fc2c9ec75125394f9485443c47ee16/href</a></iframe><p>Whether you prefer your diversity stats from TikTok data scientists or Catalyst reporting, it’s evident the leadership of the world’s most powerful organizations is abysmally homogenous.² ³</p><p>This factor speaks more to D&amp;I maturity than sincerity. The average tenure of a C-Suite executive 4.9 years.⁴ It takes time to rotate a leadership team.</p><p>For companies that have been intentional about D&amp;I for some time, they’ll likely be much further along in their efforts to create representative leadership teams.</p><p>There is an exception to this point which I address further in #3. It’s a red flag if women are still seriously underrepresented on any organization’s senior leadership team.</p><h4>What to Look For: Marginalized Identities in Leadership Positions</h4><p>Go directly to the “About Us”, “Senior Leadership”, or “Corporate Profile” page and take a look at who’s who in their zoo. Most companies will have the headshots, bios, and contact info for its senior leadership plainly visible. If not and the company is publicly-traded, you can also find the names of its C-Suite members and the board of directors in the annual report.</p><p>Even if the team is relatively monochromatic, take a quick peek at their bios for mention of charitable organizations they support or causes they’re passionate about. For example, a white senior leader as the executive sponsor or champion for an organization’s programs for Latinx employees demonstrates allyship and awareness of the significance of D&amp;I.</p><h3>2. Senior Leaders Are Silent</h3><h4>Why This Matters</h4><p>Remember #BlackoutTuesday? That questionable weekday in June of 2020 where millions of people paused their regularly scheduled social media programming to post a black square in solidarity with the BLM movement? Yes, unfortunately, I do too.</p><p>Was it performative virtue signaling? Depends on the person and their subsequent actions.</p><p>Regardless, this lingering digital artifact and anything else an individual or organization posts on social media about D&amp;I are extremely useful in your evaluation. A black square isn’t the most compelling example, but it at least proves anti-racism isn’t a foreign concept to the original poster. Better yet, it’s proof they’re willing to take at least a small (read: exceptionally small) step in solidarity.</p><p>A lot of D&amp;I efforts fail because there isn’t a clear, visible commitment from senior leaders. If the CEO doesn’t care about D&amp;I, why should their less bought-in employees? More mature organizations recognize the importance of having their senior leaders as active, vocal champions for their D&amp;I strategies.</p><p>They also recognize the importance of separating church from state, or in this case: senior leaders from their corporate entities. Sure, it’s great when a company tweets a statement of solidarity or its commitment to D&amp;I. Box checked. But compared to when a CEO and other leaders post from their individual accounts? It’s a different sentiment.</p><p>These public, individualized declarations demonstrate the poster is willing to put some skin in the D&amp;I game. It may not seem like much, but remember not every leader is comfortable being associated with movements for equality. Especially in organizations where the leadership’s social media isn’t controlled by the marketing division, these statements go a long way to indicate personal interest in D&amp;I.</p><h4>What to Look For: Public Commitments by Leaders</h4><p>Now that you’ve reviewed the senior leadership of an organization, take it a step further and creep those individuals on social media. Reminder, white men and others with visible forms of privilege can’t change that they are white, male, or otherwise privileged, but they can recognize the power they have as allies and use their platforms to play a role in anti-racism and D&amp;I. Look for content that demonstrates their awareness of this responsibility.</p><p>See if these senior leaders are engaging with the D&amp;I issues that matter to you. Pay attention to the language they use and their confidence in discussing these topics. Personally, I look for CEO interviews on D&amp;I to see how comfortable they are in this dialogue. If the CEO in question struggles with the acronym “2SLGBTQ+” or hesitates before saying the words “Indigenous”, “Black”, or “African-American” as if they’re inappropriate, this can indicate a general lack of experience in discussing D&amp;I.</p><p>Bonus points if whatever you find existed before May 25, 2020.</p><h3></h3><p>There is no place for hate and racism in our society. Empathy and shared understanding are a start, but we must do more. I stand with the Black and African American community and we are committed to building on this work in our company and in our communities. https://t.co/WaEuhRqBho</p><h3>3. D&amp;I Efforts are One Dimensional</h3><h4>Why This Matters</h4><p>Every identity contributes to diversity, however, many organizational D&amp;I strategies are severely one-dimensional, still focused on a single topic.</p><p>Which topic?</p><p>The advancement of women.</p><p>To be clear, I’m fully on board here. Equality for women is critical and it’s clear there is still plenty of work to be done. However, if women’s equality is the only cause an organization has put effort towards, it’s a clear sign of an immature or lackluster approach to D&amp;I.</p><p>But why is there such a laser-focus on women’s rights?</p><ol><li><strong>The burning platform has been established. </strong>Binary gender equality efforts are well documented. The dialogue is also normalized in society. Many individuals know what feminism is, the women’s suffrage movement is common in our curriculums, and most individuals are aware of the gender pay gap.</li><li><strong>It’s a cause people can intimately identify with.</strong> Most people advocate for what impacts them or someone they care for directly. Everyone has a female family member or friend they hope to see unencumbered by systemic barriers. It’s common to hear men at women’s initiatives state they’re there “for their wife” or “for their daughter.” This intuitive sympathy drives action and accountability.</li></ol><p>Unfortunately, the same can’t be said for other causes. Not everyone has a Black friend, a queer friend, or a friend with disabilities. Still, the oppression experienced by many marginalized groups is neither mainstream knowledge nor mainstream concern.</p><figure><img alt="" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/850/1*RYZPgNxA-5hKEQMHDRI4fg.png" /><figcaption>John Hopkin’s Diversity Wheel depicts the fluid and fixed factors that contribute to our identities.⁶</figcaption></figure><p>As our definitions of diversity and our understanding of systemic barriers evolve, it’s clear that a focus on women’s rights is table stakes. More needs to be done.</p><p>Organizations that truly “get it” know and account for the full spectrum of diversity. They recognize the implications of our diverse experiences, identities, and perspectives through an intersectional and objective lens.</p><p>At minimum, they know not to conflate women’s equality with gender equality.⁷</p><h4>What to Look For: Formalized Programming For and Commitment to a Variety of Diverse Identities</h4><p>An organization’s employee resource groups (ERGs) often represent some, if not all, of an organization’s D&amp;I priority groups.</p><p>ERGs are collectives of employees who collaborate to foster awareness, advocacy, and connection around a shared identity, experience, or cause. Although ERG is the most common title, some organizations refer to these groups as “affinity networks” or “employee caucuses” or “interest groups”. In practice, ERGs are traditionally extra-curricular initiatives sponsored by their organizations.</p><p>The first documented ERG was Xerox’s National Black Employees Association. It was started in the 1960s by the organization’s Black employees and was sponsored by then CEO, Joseph Wilson.⁸</p><p>Look for how many ERGs an organization has and what groups they’re centred on. Every company listed on DiversityInc’s 2020 list of the Top 50 Companies for Diversity has ERGs.⁹</p><p>It’s common for a single organization to have multiple ERGs. A quick search at the time of writing shows Xerox has 7, Royal Bank of Canada has 8, and Suncor has 7.¹⁰ ¹¹ ¹²</p><p>If an organization just has a women’s ERG, they have some work to do.</p><p>Search “<em>Company Name</em> + employee resource group” and see what you get. Also, check the reporting section of an organization’s website. Many annual reports now include a section on D&amp;I where ERGs are often listed. Some organizations consider D&amp;I to be a component of their broader corporate social responsibility (CSR) efforts so take a look in that section too. Reports dedicated solely to D&amp;I are also becoming more common — a definite sign of interest in the topic.</p><p>A quick note — even if listed, an ERG may not always be “active”. Because ERGs are usually “side-of-the-desk” programs, their effectiveness varies. If you have the opportunity to speak to someone at the organization, ask them about their ERG networks and other D&amp;I programming. If they list a bunch of ERGs, but can’t give examples of what they do for the organization, it could be a sign ERG leadership isn’t receiving enough support to truly make an impact.</p><p>Again, I consider the three indicators listed above as foundational. However, if an organization is lacking in one or two, they aren’t necessarily a write-off when it comes to D&amp;I.</p><p>Maybe the new CEO who starts on Monday has D&amp;I at the top of their agenda whereas their predecessor didn’t. Maybe the organization is extremely small and does most of its hiring through referrals, negating the need for a boisterous “careers” page outlining all of its diversity initiatives.</p><p>What you see as an outsider won’t always tell the full story.</p><p>Whether or not you like what you find, at least you know you’ve done your D&amp;I due diligence.</p><p>[1]: Monster. (2018). <a href="https://hiring.monster.com/employer-resources/recruiting-strategies/workforce-planning/workforce-diversity-for-millennials/"><em>What workforce diversity means for Gen Z.</em></a></p><p>[2]: @Bri_Xu. TikTok. (December 30, 2020). <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/foryou?_d=secCgYIASAHKAESMgowns4CziPSYm37SgyQAhPhzUrRtaKAKp2%2FfLjMS7cNzPs6Tibi%2FkhGXzNhMytQoNNuGgA%3D&amp;language=en&amp;preview_pb=0&amp;sec_user_id=MS4wLjABAAAAYxJ_8Idm47Gdg1rOFagBpRc3emNb1a0S5c2aieXjE1L0p6YK48Hck69aoqJf6kkZ&amp;share_item_id=6912163623469141253&amp;share_link_id=4957CF09-AD48-4CA4-8CC9-193ED1FF0604&amp;timestamp=1609550080&amp;tt_from=sms&amp;u_code=d5l8bbhki9f131&amp;user_id=6682406979401499653&amp;utm_campaign=client_share&amp;utm_medium=ios&amp;utm_source=sms&amp;source=h5_m&amp;is_copy_url=1&amp;is_from_webapp=v2#/@bri_xu/video/6912163623469141253">#stitch with zacharyloft imma bout to crtl+c, crtl+v this audio with stats stay tuned</a></p><p>[3]: Catalyst. (December 2, 2020). <a href="https://www.catalyst.org/research/women-ceos-of-the-sp-500/"><em>Women CEOs of the S&amp;P 500</em></a></p><p>[4]: Korn Ferry. (January 21, 2020). <a href="https://www.kornferry.com/about-us/press/age-and-tenure-in-the-c-suite#:~:text=When%20analyzed%20in%20the%20aggregate,depending%20on%20title%20and%20industry.&amp;text=The%20average%20age%20for%20a%20CEO%20across%20industries%20is%2059."><em>Age and Tenure in the C-Suite</em></a></p><p>[5]: Satya Nadella. (June 1, 2020). <a href="https://twitter.com/satyanadella/status/1267492314584236032?lang=en">Tweet.</a></p><p>[6]: John Hopkins University. <a href="https://www.researchgate.net/figure/Diversity-Wheel-as-used-at-Johns-Hopkins-University-12_fig1_320178286">Diversity Wheel.</a></p><p>[7]: Carolina Pía García Johnson &amp; Kathleen Otto. (February 20, 2019). <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6391313/"><em>Better Together: A Model for Women and LGBTQ Equality in the Workplace</em></a><em>,</em></p><p>[8]: Rebekah Bastian. (February 11, 2019). <a href="https://www.forbes.com/sites/rebekahbastian/2019/02/11/how-to-foster-workplace-belonging-through-successful-employee-resource-groups/?sh=51189c5cdc73"><em>How to Foster Workplace Belonging Through Successful Employee Resource Groups.</em></a></p><p>[9]: Olivia Riggio. DiversityInc. (August 4, 2020). <a href="https://www.diversityinc.com/history-and-evolution-of-employee-resource-groups-ergs/"><em>Exploring the History and Evolution of Employee Resource Groups</em></a><em>,</em></p><p>[10]: Xerox. <a href="https://www.xerox.com/en-us/jobs/diversity/programs-in-the-workplace">Creating a Competitive Advantage.</a> Accessed January 31, 2021.</p><p>[11]: Royal Bank of Canada. <a href="https://www.rbc.com/diversity-inclusion/our-commitments-to-inclusion.html">Our Commitment to Inclusion.</a> Accessed January 31, 2021.</p><p>[12]: Suncor. <a href="https://sustainability.suncor.com/en/our-business/inclusion-and-diversity">Inclusion and Diversity.</a> Accessed January 31, 2021.</p><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=f762a8290c71" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Why You’re Worth Mentoring]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Mon, 18 Jan 2021 13:03:50 GMT</pubDate>
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            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h4>Conquer imposter syndrome and find yourself a rad mentor</h4><figure><img alt="Two women in casual clothing sitting across from each other at a table engaged in conversation" src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/1024/0*vDbqQ8P70qs_aAjI" /><figcaption>Photo by <a href="https://unsplash.com/@wocintechchat?utm_source=medium&amp;utm_medium=referral">Christina @ wocintechchat.com</a> on <a href="https://unsplash.com?utm_source=medium&amp;utm_medium=referral">Unsplash</a></figcaption></figure><p><em>Last Fall, I launched and co-led Accenture Canada’s first BOLD Student Mentorship Program where 58 BIPOC post-secondary students and recent graduates were paired with current Accenture Canada employees for three months of networking, professional development, and one-to-one mentorship. This article is the first in a series of reflection pieces from the program.</em></p><p>Consider if any of the following statements resonate:</p><ol><li>I have never had a mentor before.</li><li>I am either a student or early-career professional.</li><li>I identify as a woman, any other gender minority, BIPOC, LGBTQ+, a Person with Disabilities, a newcomer/immigrant, or with any other visible or invisible marginalized identity.</li><li>I hesitate to reach out to professionals for coffee chats or advice because I don’t want to inconvenience them.</li><li>I have used the phrase “sorry to bother you”, “sorry for the inconvenience”, or another apology when requesting someone’s time.</li><li>I am reluctant to ask for a follow-up after a positive initial interaction with someone because I feel I’ve already used enough of their time.</li><li>Imposter syndrome? I know her well.</li></ol><p>If any of the above had you nodding your head…</p><p><strong>This article is for you.</strong></p><p>Especially if you identify with #3, <strong>you deserve and need a mentor. </strong>Specifically, a mentor who looks like you or has similar lived experiences of marginalization.¹</p><p>For the prospective mentees out there who fear they aren’t worth mentoring or who wonder why so many incredible, successful people are inclined to invest in us as mentors, I’ve summarized their most common reasons for mentoring below.</p><p><strong>Spoiler alert: all of these reasons revolve around the undeniable value we (as mentees) offer, just by being ourselves.</strong></p><h3><strong>Your Experiences are Valuable</strong></h3><p>Evidently, I am not a biologist. Nor do I claim to be. Despite this, I clearly remember my high school biology unit on the three types of symbiotic relationships: parasitism, commensalism, and mutualism. Apparently, it’s my framework of choice to give you a bit of inspiration. Here goes:</p><p>Prospective mentee, you are not a parasitic tick that has latched itself on a disgruntled host. Nor are you a commensalistic suckerfish who’s taking a free commute to its next meal on the underbelly of a none-the-wiser tiger shark. <strong>You, my friend, are a proud aphid. </strong>An aphid about to embark on a happy, mutualistic relationship with a kind farmer ant who likely has a network of other farmer ants who would also benefit from exposure to your unique experiences and skillset.</p><p>Without getting too specific about the intricacies of the ant/aphid relationship (the gross details may undermine that 10/10 metaphor), trust me when I say that the experiences and perspectives you bring will be both interesting and valuable to the right mentor.</p><p>Whether you’re a first-year undergrad at a tiny post-secondary or a vice-president at a large organization, your knowledge is yours alone. Everyone can benefit from learning something new.</p><p>Considering the traditional age and/or experience gap between mentors and mentees, your prospective mentor is likely far removed from the day-to-day that you consider mundane. Even if you have the same alma mater or work in the same industry, chances are that those spaces are quite different as you navigate them today versus when your mentor did in the past.</p><p>This difference of perspective is critical. Exposure to the lived experiences of others builds empathy — an essential trait for successful leaders.²</p><h3><strong>Reflection is Mandatory</strong></h3><p>Being a mentor is self-reflection of the highest accountability. Why? Because mentees ask great questions. Questions so great, the mentees may not even realize how great their questions are. Ironically, the best questions are usually the most fundamental.</p><p>Personally, if a mentee asks me a seemingly simple question, it <em>hits different. </em>The stakes of my response are higher.</p><p>Regardless of the question, best believe that if my mentee’s asking, I will do everything in my power to drop some major wisdom on them. Eleven times out of ten, that level of intentionality requires more thought and reflection than I would invest if I asked myself this question.</p><p>Are my responses always earth-shatteringly insightful? No. But that’s beside the point.</p><p>For example, a student recently asked: <em>“why do you do the work that you do?” </em>A very simple, reasonable question that without a doubt, I have asked myself and others in the past. Yet hearing it from this individual completely stopped me in my tracks.</p><p>At that time, my professional purpose wasn’t exactly top of mind. I had a major project deliverable due later that week, the BOLD program was well underway, and I was rushing to get as much off my plate as possible before going on vacation at the end of the month. I was completely stuck in the administrative “get it done” mode. My strategic “why” was the farthest thing from my mind. Honestly, it had been for quite some time.</p><p>Regardless, I gave my response and we went about our conversation. What this student didn’t see was the lengthy period I spent after the session, thinking further about my answer and how it reconciles with where I am at in my career. An unexpected, but valuable way to spend a Tuesday evening.</p><p>Topics like this and the many others that are reasonably top of mind for a mentee seeking guidance (i.e. employment prospects, determining fit within an organization/team, negotiating salary, navigating workplace disputes, etc.) can often be put on the back burner for mentors who’ve found a rhythm in their professional day-to-day. As a result, these questions can be a much needed moment of unexpected yet, beneficial self-reflection for a mentor.</p><p>I recognize every question a mentee asks may not trigger existential recalibration (nor should it), but I’d wager a guess that your mentor will consider and appreciate the conversations they have with you for much longer than you’d expect.</p><h3><strong>Small Investment, Big Return</strong></h3><p>The practice of mentorship, especially in a professional context, is over-inflated. It can be conceptualized with grandeur and treated as this inaccessible, one-stop ticket to career success. Some folks’ descriptions of their process of finding the “perfect mentor” evoke images of a multi-year pilgrimage ended with a blood pact between them and their soon to be professional soulmate. This rhetoric is obnoxious. Unfortunately, it scares a lot of individuals seeking mentorship.</p><p>In practice, being a mentor truly is not a lot of work. When we designed the BOLD program, we asked our mentors to commit to meeting with their mentee once a month for 30 minutes. That’s absolutely nothing!</p><p>Regardless of time spent, the good mentor/mentee relationships won’t feel like work. Mentorship is a simple thing: two people, with differing experiences, repeatedly coming together to share perspectives with the goal of personal or professional growth for <strong>all involved parties</strong>.</p><p>Think about it. Mentorship is just another form of volunteering. Lucky enough, Canadians love volunteering. In 2018 alone, almost 12.7 million people volunteered for charities, non-profits, and other community organizations. The same year, almost 22.7 million people dedicated hours to informal volunteer efforts unaffiliated with a group or organization, for example, mentorship.³</p><p>To be very clear, this association between mentorship and volunteerism doesn’t mean that you’re a charity case. These statistics hopefully demonstrate that your potential mentor is likely one of the 74% of all Canadians accustom to committing time towards supporting others.³ For them, it’s a small investment with a big return. You can bet that your prospective mentor was once, and likely still is, someone’s mentee. They’ll recognize the value of mentorship and ultimately, want to pay it forward to someone else. <strong>Asking someone to be your mentor is not asking too much of them.</strong></p><p>Whether you’re actively looking for a mentor or the thought of finding a mentor has never crossed your mind, I’m here to remind you that <strong>you are worth mentoring and you deserve to be mentored</strong>.</p><p>Your experiences are valuable. They are uniquely yours and worth sharing. The questions you ask are more insightful than you may realize. They’ll help your mentor reflect and anchor in the fundamentals. Most importantly, anyone worth having as a mentor will look forward to the time they can spend with you. They will recognize the opportunity to spend time with you for the privilege it is. They will not see you as an inconvenience and they definitely will not treat you like one. <em>If they do, tell me and I’ll set them straight.</em></p><p>Now go channel your most proud aphid-self and find yourself an amazing mentor.</p><p>[1]: Sadiya Ansari. (July 3, 2020). <em>Why Women of Colour Need Mentors Who Look Like They Do.</em> <a href="https://www.refinery29.com/en-ca/2020/07/9871564/mentorship-women-of-colour-media">https://www.refinery29.com/en-ca/2020/07/9871564/mentorship-women-of-colour-media</a></p><p>[2]: Prudy Gourguechon. (December 26, 2017). Empathy Is An Essential Leadership Skill -- And There’s Nothing Soft About It. https://www.forbes.com/sites/prudygourguechon/2017/12/26/empathy-is-an-essential-leadership-skill-and-theres-nothing-soft-about-it/?sh=760f42b9daa7</p><p>[3]: Statistics Canada. (December 17, 2020). <em>Volunteering in Canada: Challenges and opportunities during the COVID-19 pandemic. </em><a href="https://www150.statcan.gc.ca/n1/pub/45-28-0001/2020001/article/00037-eng.htm">https://www150.statcan.gc.ca/n1/pub/45-28-0001/2020001/article/00037-eng.htm</a></p><img src="https://medium.com/_/stat?event=post.clientViewed&referrerSource=full_rss&postId=e161c21bbd84" width="1" height="1" alt="">]]></content:encoded>
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