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        <title><![CDATA[Stories by Kristen Tsetsi on Medium]]></title>
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            <title><![CDATA[When Women Don’t Like Women, Why Do We Blame Men?]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://kristentsetsi.medium.com/when-women-dont-like-women-why-do-we-blame-men-62ece9c5a7b1?source=rss-2ba6d1fabe76------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2600/0*n5Eq16sVMaT8lY7v" width="6000"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Women can do it for themselves</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://kristentsetsi.medium.com/when-women-dont-like-women-why-do-we-blame-men-62ece9c5a7b1?source=rss-2ba6d1fabe76------2">Continue reading on Medium »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Fri, 08 May 2026 14:05:45 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Just Because Scott Galloway Annoys Me]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://kristentsetsi.medium.com/just-because-scott-galloway-annoys-me-68540c537ad0?source=rss-2ba6d1fabe76------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2048/1*2hruykdHAthAmY0qZI4f8A.jpeg" width="2048"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">And because &#x201C;And that should make us feel safer?&#x201D;</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://kristentsetsi.medium.com/just-because-scott-galloway-annoys-me-68540c537ad0?source=rss-2ba6d1fabe76------2">Continue reading on Medium »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Kristen Tsetsi]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Tue, 13 Jan 2026 14:50:38 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2026-01-13T14:55:06.219Z</atom:updated>
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            <title><![CDATA[Writing Made My Hair Fall Out]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://writingcooperative.com/writing-made-my-hair-fall-out-5a36e53653b0?source=rss-2ba6d1fabe76------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2600/0*ndp_z6q9-M_IyPdZ" width="6000"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Or maybe I&#x2019;m misplacing the blame</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://writingcooperative.com/writing-made-my-hair-fall-out-5a36e53653b0?source=rss-2ba6d1fabe76------2">Continue reading on The Writing Cooperative »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Kristen Tsetsi]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Thu, 08 Jan 2026 14:02:50 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2026-01-08T14:02:50.739Z</atom:updated>
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            <title><![CDATA[My Human Part(s)]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://kristentsetsi.medium.com/my-human-part-s-938242696d41?source=rss-2ba6d1fabe76------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2600/0*amVwqt6yF5NkdMzk" width="6720"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">In a world of animals</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://kristentsetsi.medium.com/my-human-part-s-938242696d41?source=rss-2ba6d1fabe76------2">Continue reading on Medium »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <category><![CDATA[nature]]></category>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Kristen Tsetsi]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Wed, 17 Dec 2025 17:01:34 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2025-12-17T17:02:33.582Z</atom:updated>
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            <title><![CDATA[No More People Pleasing]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://kristentsetsi.medium.com/no-more-people-pleasing-766d9b6c0485?source=rss-2ba6d1fabe76------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/800/0*HHo5UeMT1SCbIdk4.jpeg" width="800"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">From now on I&#x2019;m a di*k</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://kristentsetsi.medium.com/no-more-people-pleasing-766d9b6c0485?source=rss-2ba6d1fabe76------2">Continue reading on Medium »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Kristen Tsetsi]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Tue, 30 Sep 2025 14:53:24 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2025-10-03T13:14:11.961Z</atom:updated>
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            <title><![CDATA[Childfree-dom Isn’t a Welcome Conversation in Nigeria]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://kristentsetsi.medium.com/childfree-dom-isnt-a-welcome-conversation-in-nigeria-3b2c22ca7427?source=rss-2ba6d1fabe76------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/940/0*MuNk4DBzGYOVM7DW.png" width="940"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">But Nigerian artist Toye Ayomide is having it, anyway</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://kristentsetsi.medium.com/childfree-dom-isnt-a-welcome-conversation-in-nigeria-3b2c22ca7427?source=rss-2ba6d1fabe76------2">Continue reading on Medium »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Kristen Tsetsi]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Fri, 01 Aug 2025 15:33:38 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2025-08-01T15:34:15.620Z</atom:updated>
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            <title><![CDATA[Love Isn’t a Choice; It’s a Feeling]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://kristentsetsi.medium.com/love-isnt-a-choice-it-s-a-feeling-9358e4928d6c?source=rss-2ba6d1fabe76------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2600/0*CGKqXROWEjWbd_9I" width="3456"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">The biggest trap is thinking you can choose it</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://kristentsetsi.medium.com/love-isnt-a-choice-it-s-a-feeling-9358e4928d6c?source=rss-2ba6d1fabe76------2">Continue reading on Medium »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Kristen Tsetsi]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Wed, 16 Jul 2025 16:53:48 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2025-07-16T17:04:39.144Z</atom:updated>
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            <title><![CDATA[We’re Too Easy on Selfish Parents]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://lifewithoutchildren.com/were-too-easy-on-selfish-parents-eccf7aba8fdc?source=rss-2ba6d1fabe76------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2600/0*wJleZPFQA5g-Ex6g" width="3861"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">And it&#x2019;s hurting kids</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://lifewithoutchildren.com/were-too-easy-on-selfish-parents-eccf7aba8fdc?source=rss-2ba6d1fabe76------2">Continue reading on Life Without Children »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Kristen Tsetsi]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Sun, 15 Jun 2025 06:23:26 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title><![CDATA[Can We Stop With Celebrity Childfree “Heroes”?]]></title>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Kristen Tsetsi]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Sat, 24 May 2025 07:32:23 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2025-06-25T13:50:25.020Z</atom:updated>
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            <title><![CDATA[Let’s Kick Rapists Out of the Military]]></title>
            <description><![CDATA[<div class="medium-feed-item"><p class="medium-feed-image"><a href="https://medium.com/fourth-wave/men-arent-fit-for-combat-9c312bb8fbec?source=rss-2ba6d1fabe76------2"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/2600/0*4MwU8Rbdr9tyc5BR" width="6720"></a></p><p class="medium-feed-snippet">Excluding women to protect weak men is counter to our goals</p><p class="medium-feed-link"><a href="https://medium.com/fourth-wave/men-arent-fit-for-combat-9c312bb8fbec?source=rss-2ba6d1fabe76------2">Continue reading on Fourth Wave »</a></p></div>]]></description>
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            <dc:creator><![CDATA[Kristen Tsetsi]]></dc:creator>
            <pubDate>Thu, 16 Jan 2025 11:11:59 GMT</pubDate>
            <atom:updated>2025-01-19T15:56:58.797Z</atom:updated>
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