Love is that pure essence which is capable of bringing the best of a person. People think that love is something like mere attraction towards opposite sex ,but its not like that . Love has different forms , but the best part is :it is unique and pure in each and every form.

Here ,I am only considering the love for our partner i.e., the love for the person whom we think of as our soulmate. This world is full of different views and it is because everyone have their own point of view. And the funniest part is everyone thinks that his perception is the best. But I feel that perception is something which depends on the surrounding in which the individual’s upbringing has taken place . So, we have no right to criticise someone else’s view . Just because we feel like that is wrong ,it is not necessary that the thing is really” wrong” rather it may be something which is “not right enough”.

Now , I would like to clear something about unconditional love . It is very easy to say that “my love towards you is unconditional” . But one should ask himself that is it really unconditional? Its like one out of hundred case in which the love is really unconditional. Otherwise there is always something just because of which your lover wants you in his life . And when it is the case that there is something which is wanted then, it is not unconditional. Even the statement “ I want you in my life or, I want to live with you forever” itself is conditional. It reveals that his love is based on “being together”, it means if they are apart their heart will start searching for new devices to get connected.

But when the love in your heart is really unconditional then,it doesn’t matter whether you are together or apart, wether you talk regularly or not, wether you say “I love you” daily or not and many such things become irrelevant. This essence of love makes you so strong that you don’t need your lover in your life for the completion of your love story. This creates a situation in which , if that person becomes a part of your life ,whom we call life partner then, you will make every little effort to make your love story the best one or, if that person is not with you even then your love for that person is more than enough to be considered.

So, lastly in my opinion its not the person to be loved ,its the soul which should be loved. And one more thing I would like to mention is that its not necessary to be together in love but its only necessary to love without any condition with full determination.

Try to love others so that you will be loved in return. Don’t think that I am trying to be economical and its not like that I am teaching you to make “give and take relations” but the only fact is always try to give that only thing to others which you want from them because its the rule of nature. But remember one thing never expect love from the person whom you love because as I have said Love is unconditional. I know its a little bit contradictory but as you all know that the feeling of love is so weird that it is quite difficult to understand it totally .

But dude when they leave, expect the unexpected. You’ll feel the kind of pain that you have never experienced. All you want that time is to see them, listen to them because no other drug in this whole fucking world is going to help soften that pain. You will want to cry but tears will not roll on your cheeks. You’ll feel like someone has punched you hard in your heart and the stomach will ache along with the it. You will left with pain and pain and pain only.

So now you know the pros and cons of falling hard in love. Now you decide. All I wish is you get to feel the best of love and never have to face the worst side of it. Not everyone can handle that pain.

But still man, after experiencing both I want to tell you, love is so lovely.