Humorous Life Lessons

Stop Chasing Perfect & Enjoy the Ride

Your quest for the perfect life may be ruining the one you already have … and also ruining your garden.

Karen Lunde
Feral GenX Smartass
8 min readFeb 17, 2024

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I have a confession to make: I’m a recovering perfectionist.

Perfectionism has fucked with my life since I was just a child, and I am so over it.

Perfecting perfectionism, one neglected plant at a time

I was inspired by Joe Guay - Dispatches From the Guay Life! and his story about people over 50 suddenly getting into gardens.

I receive such a burst of hope and peace anytime I submerge myself into any little town’s creative nursery or garden shop. — Joe Guay

Same, Joe, same.

Only I’m more than just into visiting garden centers to look at all the pretty stuff; I tend to come home with plant babies. And roughly 76.3% of the time, I come home with plant babies and absolutely zero idea about where they’re going in my yard.

I’m more interested in the fun part — shopping for plants.

Digging and planting? That sounds like work to me. I simply want to enjoy the fruits of my shopping labor without … any additional labor…

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Karen Lunde
Feral GenX Smartass

Career writer, musician, friend to dogs, messy gardener. I write emotional memoir, sweary essays littered with oversharing, and occasional writing tips.