It’s Okay.

Sometimes it’s Ok to do things that are not Ok.

It is not ok to take someone for granted

It is not ok to disrespect someone

It is not ok to hit someone

It is not ok to hurt someone

It is not ok to judge someone

It is not ok to stab someone with words

It is not ok to offend someone

but,

Sometimes it’s Ok to do things that are not Ok.

When your hair is held back not by a ponytail

When your cheeks are red not because of a blush

When a cigar drills through your hands

When your uterus is kicked out of your stomach

When you are stabbed at the heart, not by cupid arrow

When you are drained not because of a long day of work


It is ok to stand up

It is ok to do everything mentioned above

It is ok to smash their face as your hair is held high

It is ok to stab them back them

It is ok to abuse

It is ok to use the exact words that they throw at you.


They say everything is fair in love and war

It is just that it’s already war and you are not fighting back.

Fight back because It’s Okay.


I have been recently daunted by lots of stories about domestic violence. Everyone has a story around one or the other. Abuses can come in the form of verbal, physical, mental or sexual. It is not happening just to women. It is high time that we stand up and stand with people who are going through Domestic violence. Domestic violence is not ok.