Falling out of love
Love is the most classicist sensation one can feel , with all its butterflies and passionate flashes not to mention, that blind eyes that we once got that made everything look charming and breathtaking. do you remember your husband’s snoring that you once found as beautiful as the bird’s tweets, or that sound your wife did while eating a tasty drumsticks. As matter affect, Countless movies and novels talks about love and define it in so many different ways, however not so many talked about falling out of it, since it is actually the hardest sensation one can describe because simply some people do not want to admit it.
Falling out of love is not sudden, although you will feel that it suddenly happened. Many things could lead us to experience that feeling, like thinking negatively of our partner, having too many fights, arguing a lot, lack of gratitude and the abusment whether it’s physical or emotional. We have four stops in that journey; if we passed through them then we are definitely out of love.
Thinking negatively of our partner that what leads to lots of arguing and fighting, because basically we do not trust and question their feelings towards us , it is like we feel that everything they say or do is a conspiracy from their side to hurt and damage us. As result, this is the first stop that we will pass throught in that journey.
Fighting and arguing is normal in a relationship actually it is a way of communication but in an aggressive kind of way. Like fighting over which folks are we going to spend this Christmas with or whether we should eat our meals in the kitchen or the living room in front of the baseball game. Nevertheless, it is all stupid fights that any couple can go through, but if they were over done on a regular basis, well that can possibly cause a small hole in the relationship, Besides that could possibly be our second stop.
Lack of gratitude from one or both sides means the absence of feelings and caring, and once those two things are lost they will never come back again. So if you felt that you have lost them then that is your third stop my dear.
Abusing your lover physically or emotionally is actually the cruelest thing anyone could do and I don’t think that there are any excuses for accepting such behavior. In my opinion if someone hits, slaps or call names to his partner that would be the real deal breaker because once we headed to that point then the destination has been reached and there is someone here probably that has fallen out of love.
