I Give Men Blue Balls. Is It Fair?

How gaining insight into men’s physiology empowered me to be more assertive of my boundaries

Aurelie B.
Fourth Wave
Published in
8 min readMar 27, 2024

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The whole image is made out of turquoise blue ballons looking like balls.
Photo by No Revisions on Unsplash

I first heard the expression “blue balls” about two years ago. My date at the time casually said, “thanks for the blue balls,” after a make-out session that went from hot to cold. That night, we had kept all our clothes on, and to me, our embrace felt…

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Aurelie B.
Fourth Wave

Me? 30 something French woman living in Toronto. Positive, witty & a dash sarcastic. You? Open-minded reader ready to follow me on my adventures through Medium.