ADOPTION SERIES | PART TWO

Renee Gelin Says Family Preservation Is Adoption Reform

But there’s no money to be made in family preservation

Kristen Tsetsi
Fourth Wave
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14 min readOct 28, 2024

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Renee Gelin and the baby she surrendered to an adoptive family

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For a recent article I wrote about manipulative adoption industry language (“The ‘Loving Option’ Is a Lie”), I interviewed five women: two adoptees, two birth (or first) mothers, and one adoptive mother. This five-part Adoption Series will comprise segments of our interview transcripts that didn’t appear in the story.

This second interview in the series is with first mother Renee Gelin, founder of the nonprofit family preservation organization Saving Our Sisters (SOS).

KT: What were the circumstances when you — Do you prefer the language “placed your child,” “relinquished your child,” or something else?

RENEE GELIN (RG): Surrendered. I describe it as the perfect storm. A business that went bad, and I’d moved across the country, so my family was all back in the Midwest while I’m down…

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Kristen Tsetsi
Kristen Tsetsi

Written by Kristen Tsetsi

Author of the post-Roe v. Wade novel THE AGE OF THE CHILD. “A voice & perspective we rarely see in literature. Total page-turner." - Amazon Review

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