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Single People Have Had Enough of the Condescending Reassurances

The most popular stories from 2021 suggest that singles are not about to stay in their place

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Of all that I’ve written about single people and single life in 2021, what resonated the most with readers? There are lots of ways to answer that question. I have data relevant to one of them: Which…




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Bella DePaulo

Bella DePaulo

“America’s foremost thinker and writer on the single experience,” according to the Atlantic. Author of “Singled Out.” Harvard PhD

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