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The Fragile Spouse and the Resilient Single Person

Is your partner your everything? Is that romantic? Maybe it’s risky

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Who are the people who are important to you now? That was the key question that motivated a study of the personal communities of people in contemporary Britain.

Think about the question as it applies to your life. The people can be from any…




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Bella DePaulo

Bella DePaulo

“America’s foremost thinker and writer on the single experience,” according to the Atlantic. Author of “Singled Out.” Harvard PhD

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