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Why You Want to Be Alone and Why Your Reasons Matter

Personal growth, self-acceptance, and other benefits of being alone for positive reasons

Photo by Artem Beliaikin on Unsplash

Are you one of those people who likes spending time alone? If so, you probably already know that there are some people who will stigmatize you for it. They think you are alone because you are anxious around other people and just…




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Bella DePaulo

Bella DePaulo

“America’s foremost thinker and writer on the single experience,” according to the Atlantic. Author of “Singled Out.” Harvard PhD

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