Leaders, STOP Trying to Be Heroes

IS HEROIC LEADERSHIP ALL BAD?

Wayne Mullins
Agency Accelerator
4 min readJul 4, 2023

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Sometimes in our eagerness to lead, we slip into the role of the all-saving hero, rushing to the rescue whenever there’s a problem.

This might make us feel good, crucial even, but in reality, it’s a pitfall that may hinder the growth of our teams.

It’s like that old adage, “Give a man a fish, and you feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish, and you feed him for a lifetime.”

In the leadership context, it’s about empowering people, not just solving their immediate problems.

Now, you might ask, why would anyone not want to be the hero? The cape, the glory, the accomplishment — isn’t it what leadership is all about?

But let me tell you, my friends, after years of experience in the field and with the wisdom gathered from countless real-life scenarios, this hero syndrome is more of a limitation than a badge of honor.

Here’s why…

Your Team’s Growth Gets Stunted

Imagine a scenario where you’re constantly jumping in to save the day.

Who’s learning, growing, or evolving in this situation? Certainly not your team. They are essentially just bystanders watching you save the day, over and over again.

Where’s their opportunity to learn, to make mistakes, to grow?

As leaders, it’s not our job to build an army of clones or create more followers who think and act like us.

Instead, our purpose should be to foster an environment where more leaders can be nurtured, an environment where each individual has the freedom and the authority to make decisions without fear of repercussions.

Constantly playing the hero only breeds a culture of dependency, with your team always looking to you for answers.

It stifles their creativity and hampers their ability to develop critical thinking skills and problem-solving abilities.

This kind of leadership style is not only exhausting for you, but it also disempowers your team.

Creating a Fearless Environment

When you empower those around you, they shouldn’t worry about you jumping in and micromanaging every decision they make.

True empowerment means creating an environment where people are not afraid to take risks, make mistakes, and learn from them.

To be clear, this doesn’t mean throwing them into the deep end without a lifejacket.

Empowerment is not about putting your team in situations where they are destined to fail. Rather, it’s about creating safe spaces for your team to experiment, innovate, and grow.

Remember, we learn more from our mistakes than our successes.

As a leader, it’s your job to cultivate an environment where your team can learn, not just from their triumphs, but also from their missteps. This is the bedrock of growth.

Scaling Your Business Through Empowerment

You might be thinking: “Well, I can grow my business myself. I don’t need anyone else.”

And sure, you may be able to expand your venture to a certain extent based on your actions alone. But there’s a ceiling to this growth, and it’s a lot lower than you think.

You’ll never truly scale your business without empowering others.

Why?

Because businesses grow exponentially when they leverage the diverse skills, talents, and abilities of a team, not just one person.

Just as a team of horses can pull more weight than a single horse, a team of empowered individuals can achieve much more than a lone wolf leader.

When you entrust your team with responsibilities and give them the space to take ownership, you not only nurture their growth but also drive your organization’s success.

An empowered team is a motivated team, and a motivated team moves mountains.

So, drop that cape, folks.

Remember, your role is not to be the superhero who swoops in and saves the day, but to be the mentor who guides, empowers, and ultimately, creates more leaders.

You’ll not only end up with a stronger, more capable team, but you’ll also have the satisfaction of knowing that you’ve contributed to their personal and professional growth. And in the end, isn’t that what true leadership is all about?

To sum up, let’s rethink our approach to leadership.

Let’s focus on empowering our teams and cultivating an environment where they feel safe to take risks, make decisions, and learn from their mistakes.

This is the path to sustainable growth and success, and that, my friends, is leadership without the hero cape. Because, in the grand scheme of things, it’s not about being the hero — it’s about creating more heroes.

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Peace & love

Wayne Mullins

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Wayne Mullins
Agency Accelerator

I help freelancers and agency owners build the business they deserve. Here's how 👉 linktr.ee/fireyourself