If Your Ex Doesn’t Want To Contact You
A short note!
When a person chooses to stop contacting you and separate from you, there is one thing that can be confirmed: he thinks he can find someone better than you.
So what should you do? Try to persuade him and convince him that you are the most suitable person for him.
Maybe you will say, it is impossible, he can’t find someone as good as me and loves him so much.
His confidence and his ability to do it are two different things.
In the past, those constant messages and sharing desires in the morning and evening, the hysterical W replies in front of the F hand, and the calls made late at night are all telling the other person invisibly: you can’t accept the result of losing him.
Such actions, every time you do it, it will make the other person more confident.
Do you think that he comes to you from time to time to give you a like and greet you because he still has you in his heart and can’t forget you?
He is just observing whether a person who is so inseparable is still waiting for him.
As long as he notices your humble attitude and realizes that you still want to win H back, it gives him more confidence.
In this way, he will have the confidence to leave you and pursue the girl he thinks is better.
So what should you do? Of course, return him to the crowd, let him face reality, let the market test him, let him be defeated by others, let him suffer emotional setbacks, let him be deceived by a scumbag, and let him finally find that he can’t find anyone better than you.
Maybe you will say, what if he soon finds someone better than me?
How could it be, baby, how can he be so lucky to meet you, a good person who loves him, and he can soon meet someone better? Believe me, you are his ceiling (I need to give me a thumbs up here).
In either case, what you have to do is to return to the real high position. Disconnecting, blacklisting, and deleting are just one of the processes. From the moment you choose this method, you must understand your ultimate goal.
And when will he start to feel the same pain as you?
It is the moment when he turns back to test: he finds that you are not there at all. When you not only become better but also disdain his return, that is when you truly return to the high position of value.
He must feel a lack of sense of existence, because: no one will completely forget a past partner within a month or two, which is very anti-human. And what you have to do is something that the other party can’t do.
This process is painful and inhumane, but you silently repeat this sentence in your heart: “Between two people, attraction is the key, not one-sided pursuit.”
When you first met, what touched you about the other person? As long as you can still remember, tell yourself once in your heart that you can do it.
Become the person you loved in the past and become a better version of yourself.
Until he looks back one day, you will feel from the bottom of your heart that this person is nothing special. At that moment, it is you who decides whether to continue the relationship.
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