Actually Good Advice I Got From the Pick Up Artist Community

A girl I want to meet… I should say “woman,” not “girl,” because I’m in my forties and she’s in her thirties, but somehow when I feel an attraction, it’s “girl”… Maybe because it’s built into the word “girlfriend”…?
Anyway, she postpones a date. Not the first time or the last time. She doesn’t blow off dates so consistently that it makes me want to break off…