Men and Women and Doing the Dishes

Every now and again I’ll be at a friend’s place for a dinner, and when the meal is done, generally speaking, the women will do the dishes, and the men will hang out and talk.
I don’t live in any kind of 1950’s American sit com style mythological universe where women are “supposed” to do the dishes, or are “supposed” to do anything. I know a lot of different men who are on a spectrum of opinion about…