The Worst Advice My Father Gave Me
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6 min readOct 4, 2021
“Make sure you have a backup plan.”
In some contexts, that’s reasonable advice. But it’s taken me about three decades to understand that it’s a concept that took my life in all sorts of wrong directions.
It was something my father said, but not like in a movie scene where he sat me down and said it to me like it was sage wisdom being passed down from on high. It was more of a…