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The Worst Advice My Father Gave Me

Various figures drawn in pencil, scanned from a sketchbook.
Random sketches from my sketchbook that are about as unfinished as everything I’ve ever done.

“Make sure you have a backup plan.”

In some contexts, that’s reasonable advice. But it’s taken me about three decades to understand that it’s a concept that took my life in all sorts of wrong directions.

It was something my father said, but not like in a movie scene where he sat me down and said it to me like it was sage wisdom being passed down from on high. It was more of a…




All my various writings but without the movie and show reviews.

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Dave Gutteridge

Dave Gutteridge

I write mainly about how my life falls apart, followed by opinions about shows that usually involve super heroes, and occasionally other random things.

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