How to be picky.

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Gain Inspiration
3 min readApr 12, 2022

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You need to be picky with your life and your decisions. When we were younger, we were said to eat our foods, not be a picky eater, try things. When we get older, it comes a point in time when we need to become picky again. And not only with what we eat. When we are picky with what we consume, foods need to fuel the body right, consumption of information, content, music, TV shows, and people if that’s relationships, friendships, and family. Start becoming less accessible and more picky. Once you put intention in every aspect of your life and what you do, you change your reality and become a better version of yourself. Awareness, peace, and success, all flows through without force.

Into perspective…

What and who you let into your life is like when you hop onto a Zoom call. You cannot have access to the meeting unless you are given a link. Once you have that link, you are able to join a waiting room until the host lets you in the actual meeting call, where you have access to other people and the host themselves. Just like in your life, people who contact you or try to come into your life are seeking that attraction to your “link”. When you respond to them, text, or in your physical life, they upgrade to the waiting room. Most of us are still in that waiting room. It is all in your power if you allow yourself or others to see yourself, open up, and allow access to your life and energy directly. Once they enter that official video call, they have access to other settings. Just like they have access to you, your energy, and what you give them of yourself. So take good care of yourself, and don’t share your “link” with just anyone. Be very picky about who you let enter your vibration and reality, because you will be the result of who you surround yourself with.

Be intentional.

I am sure you have all heard or even experience the saying “Don’t go grocery shopping when you are hungry”? If so, you go buying things you don’t need, simply out because of the urge of this temporary feeling that brings temporary satisfaction. We’re all victims of this cause, unfortunately, therefore it is a good start if you are aware of your needs and wants, and when these thoughts or feelings arise. Just like in life, don’t get into a relationship because you are bored or lonely. You will end up picking the wrong thing. When you are desperate, you will pick up the first best thing that catches your eye. But not always what you need.

Don’t let flowing urges and energy catch you from taking action. Be aware and disciplined. And on that note, as always, Stay Woke.

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