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3 Myths That Are Sabotaging Your Dating Life

Want to attract your dream partner? Ditch your old beliefs and try these alternatives.

Manj Bahra
7 min readMar 24, 2024


"Maybe I'll never meet someone."

These are five words I've heard from countless clients over the years.

And who can blame them? Modern dating can be challenging. Constant information overload leads to endless contradictions and analysis paralysis. We see what others have on social media and want that for ourselves. Then there's the dating apps—a minefield of often mindless swiping that leaves us feeling disheartened and hoping for someone to save us.

For most single people, dating has become confusing, overwhelming and frustrating.

But fortunately, that doesn't have to be the case. I know that people like you have much to give and need guidance. Sadly, the internet is full of whimsical advice that falls short. A big part of this is the prevalence of certain myths that become the rules people date by.

Not only do these myths lack truth, but they also sabotage well-meaning individuals who deserve love.

Well, this post is an antidote for that.

Having coached hundreds of clients to break patterns and find love, I've learned a thing or two about what…



Manj Bahra
Modern Dating Wisdom

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